I'm a commercial lawyer with a sense of humour. My job's my hobby.

There should be a "What I'm not looking for..." question.

I don't (want to) understand people who think "travelling" makes them interesting when they haven't even the wit to explore the potential of what's in front of them.

"Polyamorous" is right up there with "travelling" you wild, adventurous characters you.

Women who write thousands of words about themselves ("I'm rubbish at talking about myself") and end with words to the effect "nutters [male] need not
apply"Apply?!!! You're on a free to air dating site pet. Get over yourself. And how come is it that according to your answers so many of you bisexual females "never have and never would" have sex with a woman?

I'm a good listener and thoughtful.

Working with people and living alone.

Saving other people money. Wordsmithery.

That I can be obnoxious.

Cleva books that make me laugh. Should I list them to prove how sophisticated and erudite I am? Nah. Avoiding romantic fiction at the minute as it just makes me emotional.

Four Lions is one of the funniest and certainly the bravest film I've seen. Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy was a bit disappointing... Not been to the movies since joining OKC... [Update: hated Bond but liked Boune legacy, Hobbit ok, Pi disappointing, Lincoln I left early etc etc]

Musically, "The melody chord unwinds me..." [And Jake Bugg.]

3 would be: family, opportunity & sleep.

Other people inc you x

In bed with a glass of orange juice and a copy of The Grauniad. (In a pub, restaurant or home alone)

You will have guessed that ventisquero is not my real name and that I'm a shy guy. [Also I'm a recovering alcoholic and I wrote this profile while still drinking.
I want to be a leader and set an example to other vulnerable peeps.]
Twitter: @Anomia911

You are sincere;
You bought your phone without using your dad's money;
You know who I am; or,
You know I won't always catch you if you fall.

http://www.newstatesman.com/lifestyle/2012/03/okcupid-users-data-dating