Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


32 Philadelphia, PA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:47am
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, French (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Picking a dating site profile name is the worst. People read into everything. So I went with a random Latin word that refers to some kind of plant. (Okay it turns out this plant is poisonous. Let's move on...)

All in all I’m a pretty happy person and I’m enjoying my life in Philly. I moved here two years ago after graduate school in New York.

I have a great group of friends here and live in cozy little house (with a fireplace meant for lovers). I have a professor job. I feel pretty settled and stuff. The okcupid thing has been okay. I’ve met some great people. My philosophy is, "slow and steady wins the race." (This is also my sexual philosophy. Just kidding! Maybe.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I do stuff that professors do, at Temple. I teach and do research and waste my time at committee meetings. I'm starting a new project in Morocco, which has been cool (and by "cool" I mean scorchingly hot).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking. Thinking. Sleeping in. Cuddling (while sleeping in).

Reading books. Reading about books. Movies. Talking about movies. Reading about movies. Reading about movies about books.

Eating and drinking wine. Skiing (in snow). Zoning out at the gym. Sitting on the porch and drinking whiskey with my friends. Yoga.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm "young looking" to be a professor. Also, people ask about my ethnicity a lot. I'm mostly Polish/Italian, but people guess all kinds of stuff.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything by Ian McEwan. Dave Eggers. Michael Chabon. Louise Erdrich. Jonathan Lethem. Also, Harry Potter.

Almodóvar, Bergman, Kubrick, Kar-Wai, Al Hitchcock, Frankie Truffaut, Werner Herzog, Jean Rouch, Let the Right One In, Clue, Cry Woman, To Live, House of Yes, Ikiru, Venus in Fur, Scream.

classical, Rihanna, classical Rihanna, Arcade Fire, Radiohead, Beirut, Robyn, Sharon Jones.

all kinds of food. especially chocolate chip cookies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family
decent coffee
a decent coffee shop
comfortable bedding
a good marinara
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the night sky. human nature. chocolate chip cookies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
eating with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I went to space camp.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you want to get a beer.

Add a photo to:

Stay fresh with Instagram

Are you sure you want to delete this album?

Where's your photo?

Drop it like it’s hot

Photos must be at least 400 x 400px
Edit thumbnail
Add a caption

You look fantastic!