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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 27
5' 9" (1.76m)
Body Type
Catholicism and laughing about it
Post grad
English, French (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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picking a dating site profile name is the worst. people read into everything. so I went with a random Latin word that refers to some kind of plant. (okay it turns out this plant is poisonous. let's move on.)

all in all I’m a pretty happy person. I have a great group of friends and live in cozy little house (with a fireplace for lovers). I have a professor job. I feel pretty settled and stuff. the okcupid thing has been okay. I’ve met some good people. I guess my philosophy is, "slow and steady wins the race." (this is also my sexual philosophy. just kidding! maybe.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach and do research and waste my time at committee meetings. I'm starting a new project in Morocco, which has been cool (and by "cool" I mean scorchingly hot).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
napping. sleeping in. cuddling (esp. while napping/sleeping in).

reading books. reading about books. movies. talking about movies. reading about movies. reading about movies about books.

finding good restaurants. skiing (in snow). zoning out at the gym. drinking whiskey with my friends. volleyball. yoga.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm "young looking" to be a professor. Also, people ask about my ethnicity a lot. I'm Polish and Italian.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything by Ian McEwan. Dave Eggers. Michael Chabon. Louise Erdrich. Jonathan Lethem. Harry Potter.

Almodóvar, Bergman, Kubrick, Kar-Wai, Al Hitchcock, Frankie Truffaut, Werner Herzog, Jean Rouch, Let the Right One In, Clue, Cry Woman, To Live, House of Yes, Ikiru, Venus in Fur, sci fi.

classical, Rihanna, classical Rihanna, Arcade Fire, Radiohead, Beirut, Robyn, Sharon Jones, jazz

allll kinds of food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family
decent coffee
a decent coffee shop
soft sheets/pillows
my dog Charley
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the night sky. human nature. why is that person wearing that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
eating with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I went to space camp.
You should message me if
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if you want to get a beer.