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verdeviva

44 M Cincinnati, OH

My Details

Last Online
Jul 27
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a 43 yr old fun loving guy who enjoys hanging out with my friends and making new ones. I enjoy nature & being outdoors, but also love exploring what the city has to offer.

My family is important to me, but I've found that many times my closest friends are as much of my family if not more.

Why do so many guys LOVE dogs, but OWN cats?? Well, I know it is because cats are easier, but still.... I actually like cats, but my nose does not like many. I can tolerate them sometimes. And now I've finally found a cat that my nose seems to love. I've got a new kitten named Delphi this past Sept.

Where are the dog guys?!? And I'm speaking of dogs...not toys on a leash that you like to dress up...they are cute...but...

I am Creative, Spontaneous, and young @ heart
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'll update this soon. Getting the degree was a few years ago.
I went back to school to finish my bachelors, and just graduated. Yay.. I've achieved another rather useless milestone that many don't use. Actually, I'm really glad I finally did, and hope that it will make it easier to find the work I really want to do. I tend to find myself being the glue of my family, and sometimes I ask myself why I try...because it's my family. Creating "my family" beyond my natural family has been one of the most rewarding experiences in my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the big picture, while appreciating the details. Making friends, throwing an awesome Halloween party, tactfully telling people the hard truth (I'm a Sagittarian-we speak our mind). Being myself on the dance floor... it's been a long time since I've gone dancing. Creative cooking. I love to try new recipes, and create my own. Actually I rarely even use a recipe when it comes to everyday cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, my infectious laugh, and my unique sense of self. I'm told I have a nice smile, and depending on my current whim I may have an interestingly unique hairstyle. Currently, I have a shaved head, and a beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: To Kill A Mocking Bird-Harper Lee, Blindness-Jose Saramago, Clan of the Cave Bear-Jean Auel-I've finished the series of 5. I enjoy suspenseful horror, slice of "odd" life, antiquated historical fiction, and various non-fiction. Currently I'm reading "The Wheel of Time".

Movies: 1st & Favorite Horror-Poltergeist, Anything Hitchcock, Favorite Foreign-Amilie, Favorite movie of 2012-Prometheus

Music: very eclectic, and don't follow pop music. World music, Jazz, Broadway showtunes, some classical, some Hip Hop, Techno, and classic rock

Food: Thai cuisine has to be one of my favorite foreign foods. A Monte Cristo Sandwich rocks, Lasagna, Favorite Pizza Place -Dewey's, Most unique restaurant in Cincinnati is Gajah Wong here in Northside. Sadly the indonesian restaurant has closed.

From My Facebook Profile:

Books: To Kill A Mockingbird, C.S. Lewis, Stephen King, Roald Dahl, Oliver Sacks, E.Lynn Harris, Jean Auel
"The Mists of Avalon" by Marion Zimmer Bradley.

Movies: Poltergeist, Charlie & the Chocolate Factory, Poseidon Adventure, Amilie, It's a Mad Mad Mad Mad World, Birds, Wizard of Oz, Across the Universe, The Doors,.

TV Shows: Star Trek Next Gen, Heroes, Survivor, Amazing Race, Lavern & Shirley. I loved sitcoms from the 70's & 80's. Current sitcoms are dumb, but then I've changed too..

Music: Broadway Musicals
1970's Rock, Classical, New Age, World, Jazz.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being creative
Dark Chocolate
family & friends
Good books & movies
laughter
Time to myself
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hacking my personal path through life with a machete.
Balancing my sense of self with my family -was I adopted?
What I'm going to eat for dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Finding fun with my friends, and watching movies. .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
As much of a humanist as I tend to be, it must be nice going through life not giving a fnck.

I wear my heart on my sleeve, and that makes it easier to break. However, I'd rather live openly than hide it locked up until someone shows me their's first. If you can't share your feelings with the one you're interested in then how will they know?
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
In order of importance:
1. You're single.

2. You are over any ex-bf's,..I don't want to be teased again-intentionally or not.

3. You're interested in getting to know a caring, fun loving, unique individual.

4. You don't have reason to be moving away anytime soon.

5. You're not a serial killer secretly wanting to date me after you've eaten all my toes, and made a doll out of my hair. But then... would you really answer that honestly?

6. You like weird thoughts...see #5 for a good example.