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35 Costa Mesa, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 7:42pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Has kids
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Okay), Sign Language (Okay)
My self-summary
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I am a man who regardless of circumstances strives to be loyal to those I cling to and to my personal ideals. A tend to think of myself as imaginative and freethinking. I respect others who respect my opinion and those of others and who aren't afraid to look into others' points of view.

I'm willing to take chances and see where life will lead me. I am big on creativity, and enjoy such things as art, poetry, and music. Variety defines it all....not stagnation.

I am an admitted gamer with equal love for board games and the WOD(for those of you who know of them) fact I would say I have a bit of a nerd bent. Ok- more than a bit. But ultimately I just have an imagination and hate to see it go to waste.

I do have 2 children that unfortunately are not with me. They will always be the true loves of my life, despite the distance of miles and time.

I am imaginative, curious, and quietly pondering. I prefer an IPA to pilsner, and a stiff whiskey in general.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lately I have been writing poetry with a strange sense of earnest madness and steadily attempting to make something of the endeavor.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-making light of a bad situation

-seeing the humor in horror
The first things people usually notice about me
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You tell me, I am scared of mirrors. j/k
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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hmmmmm...I enjoy the classics and such authors as Poe or Shakespeare or De Sade...modern authors gravitate toward the unusual or risque. Christopher Moore and Poppy Z. Brite are current faves.

I enjoy comedies and horror films and have been known to critique adaptations of books. Action films only work if they have feasible plots. And I am not above romantic comedies or fact RENT has a special place in my heart.

Music...its all about the various forms of rock...from soft to hard. And I indulge in just about anything else from time to time. The Birthday Massacre is seeing high rotation at the moment.

Food...I love it...its my weakness.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I have been considering this......I'll get back in coming weeks. Or perhaps not. My life is constantly evolving. Perhaps as things stabalize I will revisit this.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything and everything- Roman history, plot holes, banking, zombies(always the zombies) and other things that go bump, family, friends, the future.

Throw human urges in there somewhere. Food and sex are ubiquitous.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing typical right now-get back with me on that. Ideally though- beer and good company are a good start.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not all that private, frankly.
You should message me if
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If that is your perogative, or you can appreciate a dork built like a bear.