how have you always pictured your future? and i don't mean what kind of job you want, or school you wanna graduate from.  i mean how have you pictured your life to be? where would you live? how would you live ?what you would drive? would you travel? family, friends what do yo u see as your future?

usually i hear things like a big house mansions mad cars traveling etc. but i wanna know how do you plan on achieving those dreams and goals

think about this : the most successful person in your dream job / career choice think about how their life style is compared to how you wanna live what time do they have to get up for work? what time do they come home ? how much they make ? can they take a few months off from that job and pursue that dram vacation without getting fired?

then keep in mind how the world is today with inflation( cost going up on living) like how milk and gas a few months back used to be cheaper gas for instance was like $2 less than a year ago now its close to $4 and tokens a few yrs back was $1.50 now its gone up over 30ow think about your jobs and salaries did they go up 30 r even close to that in that time or 10yrs even that same 30,000 a yr job was there 10 yrs ago and its here now but the cost of living went up

now think about this a car may cost 30,000 so if you make that in a whole yr but you want a car and pay rent eat food etc. what are you really doing to pursue your dream goals?

the final thing if you have a child think about this when its time for them to goto college the cost will be anywhere from 100,000 to a 1,000,000 a yr so one child will need at least 4 million in the bank untouched just to go to school

my main point is people you have to have a plan "B" or do something else besides just work for a living open your minds find a way to live your dreams not die with them i hope i touched someone who wants to be more than the average person

here is a question
what makes you think your sex game is the best ? why is it you feel a a man should want you and only you? i have this question because i run into plenty of girls to women that believe that they are the shit but when it comes down to it they are just the same or even less satisfying than any other girl out there

for example sex basically goes like this for any decent couple

first of all it takes a hell of a lot of work just to get ya ll to the point of having sex ( for average guys) then we have to turn you on such as massaging you
kissing you gently
rubbing and caressing your spots
licking and teasing you to get you hot
going down on you (if safe)
then after all that if we're not hard we're expected to enter so ...
we have to thrust and pump for at least 45 min to an hour first round
then think of another position(cuz most girls don't know what to do next)
pick you up
flip you over
hit the right spots
go faster
go deeper
and if we nut you look at us and want to do it again
after all that exercise and cardio work out we're expected to be ready for another round ( don't get me wrong some guys love to please and enjoy it all, i do) but honestly if you were in our shoes what would make you wanna do all that work all over again? what makes women think that whatever ya ll did in all that, that i just explained motivated us to get back up and do it again? what did ya ll do to turn us on or satisfy us (plz don't say head cuz that's just lame) can some woman out there answer my question at least fake like not everyone of ya ll is the same in bed ( with the exception of a few)

this is a question that can go for the guys as well as the girls but right now I'm focused on what matters most WOMEN

i know that there is a lot of people that feel that the relationship game is not right and i know for a fact that there is a lot of women that feel frustrated with the fact that they can't and don't find what they are looking for . but here is my question and this is not to bash or "get at " ya ll at all

what makes you think that you are ready for a real relationship?
what do you have to offer your partner for them to actually feel as if they should ONLY be with you for the rest of their 40 50 or even 60 years left on this earth?

and please don't say money because they can get a job themselves

do not say knowledge because they can read a book or go to school

don't say sex because truthfully if you want them I'm sure others do too

do not say fun cuz come on they can go to a theme park play games etc.

and please , please do not say such cliché things like love and loyalty because 1 a dog will forever love you and be loyal and I'm sure they have fam and friends that can give them that too

what do you only you can offer them ?
when you can honestly answer that question then and only THEN are YOU ready for a relationship
plz hit me up 

Nice guys STILL finish last To every guy that's said, "Sex CAN wait"
To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful."
To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town
(or across the stateline) to see her.
To every guy that gives her flowers and a card when she is sick or down.
To every guy who has given her flowers just because.
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
To every guy that cried in front of her.
To every guy that she cried in front of.
To every guy that holds hands with her.
To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours
just to see her for ten minutes
To every guy that would give his seat up.
To every guy that just wants to cuddle.*
To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful
no matter what.
To every guy who told his secrets to her.
To every guy that tried to show how much he cared
through every word and every breath.
To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
To every guy that believed in her dreams.*
To every guy that would have done anything
so she could achieve them.*
To every guy that never laughed at her
when she told him her dreams.
To every guy that walked her to her car and opened the door.
To every guy that gave his heart.
To every guy who prays that she is happy
even if you are not with her.**



...This one  is for you...


Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore...
And because of this, there are not many left out there...

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a god.

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complimentary...not supplementary.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and
your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another woman RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget
them.