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53 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 29-59
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Today – 2:42am
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Average build
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Post grad
My self-summary
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decent, sober, hardworking, sometimes brilliant, steadfast, loving. Seeking someone who is deeply himself. That could mean a lot of things. I think it's good to take yourself seriously.
What I’m doing with my life
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working as an architect and a garden designer an being a contributing member of society. living by the seasons
I’m really good at
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friendship, designing things, reading, listening, walking, talking, knowing when to quit, botany
The first things people usually notice about me
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that I seem taller when I stand up, very much taller, and i have good skin and teeth and look younger than my age
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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the emigrants, alicie munro's stories, chekhov's stories, urn burial, austen, middlemarch, whitman, all the rest of sebald,

tree of life, another woman, the gardens of the finzi-contini, foxes, wall-e,

dekooning, watteau, rembrandt, ensor, kobke, matisse, sassetta

husker du, dinosaur jr. (etc), annie lennox singing everytime we say goodbye, billie holiday

all kinds of food in moderation. this is one place I don't want to impose boundaries. so meat
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
pencils, all the choices of excellent things to see and do in new york, chlorophyll, books, friends, a comfy bed to get home to
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
this is sad to say, but to be perfectly honest, I spend a lot of time thinking about myself. and I then I try to change the subject to: nature, 18th century interior decoration, my gardens, how X is doing... etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
leaving town or getting home to unwind. I've had my five hundred nights out and I already know what's out there
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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you mean here?
You should message me if
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you think we have a chance