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34 M Los Angeles, CA

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6′ 5″ (1.96m)
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Working on Ph.D program
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English (Fluently), German (Okay), Czech (Poorly), French (Poorly), Latin (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm well-read, liberal and from the South, a fact over which I'm conflicted and probably always will be. I like to build and to fix things, which I don't get to do enough of in LA. I lived in Boston for about five years before moving here and felt very at home there in ways I hadn't before and haven't since, though not in every way. I love the desert and the mountains, but my work is very solitary, so most of the balance of my time is spent maintaining contact with other human beings. I wrote the Czech Republic coverage for a prominent travel guidebook series some years ago. I made my life plan when I was seventeen and have stuck with it successfully since then. I have a lot of projects on at all times. A lot. I make my plans not in terms of the position I want to occupy but the things I feel I need to have accomplished before my time is up. And I will never, ever bullshit you.
What I’m doing with my life
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finishing up a PhD at UCLA.
I’m really good at
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making complicated things simple. And making seemingly simple things complicated.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Height. Voice depth. Laugh volume.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Rilke's, Whitman's, Crane's, Eliot's and Yeats' poems. Let Us Now Praise Famous Men. A Death in the Family. Aeschylus. Sophocles. Moby Dick. Fathers and Sons. The Plague. Blood Meridian. The Border Trilogy. The Nick Adams stories. All Joyce except for Finnegan's Wake. Haven't read it yet. The Idiot. Didion.

Movies: 8 1/2, The Man Who Shot Liberty Valance, Wings of Desire, The Tree of Life, The Last Picture Show, It's a Wonderful Life.

Shows: Friday Night Lights, The Wire, Mad Men, Homeland, Anthony Bourdain, The Office (US).

Music: Tindersticks, The Walkmen, Mogwai, Hank Williams, The Pogues, My Bloody Valentine, Son House, Neurosis, Muddy Waters, Radiohead, Dwight Yoakam, Willie Nelson, The Stooges, Zeppelin, Godspeed, Metz. Elliott Smith.

Food: biscuits and gravy, sweet potato casserole, a fresh baguette with butter.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hopefully nothing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
right now, distributive justice.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
writing, working on music or rustling up some kind of adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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you want to.