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30 / M / straight / Single

Sydney, Australia

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am curious, sceptical, and gruntled.

My Self-Summary

Initially I'm a bit quiet, but it doesn't take long for me to start to get more open/chatty with people.
I guess I could say Im a bit of a geek, working in IT, and having always had some interest in computers, but I'll happily leave all the technology behind to do something outdoors/more social.
I love music, and also am learning to play guitar (extremely slowly! as well as self teaching too).

What I’m doing with my life

trying to figure out what to do with myself in the long term, but trying to have as much in the meantime. I like getting out of the city for long rides on my motorcycle, I think eventually I'd like to ride around Australia when the time is right.

The first things people usually notice about me

Not sure, people I meet don't normally tell me "you know the first thing I noticed about you was....", perhaps I should be asking them so I can better fill out this section?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books: I used to read a lot of fantasy and scifi, but branching out a bit more, currently reading Souther vampire mysteries after getting hooked on to true blood.
movies: to give a small sample, some of the favourites in the dvd collection:fight club , amelie , army of darkness, shaolin soccer. A little bit of anime is good too, so in other words a broad range of stuff..
music: mainly rock, bit of metal, and occasionally something I can dance too, artists such as :tool , nin , crystal method , foo fighters , machine head , smashing pumpkins ..
foods: italian, thai, cheese(so many different types) (I think I'd die if I couldn't eat cheese), drinking: white wines mostly, tried to like reds but haven't really found anything I've really liked, I can't drink beer at all (blech!), so the normal drink for me is cider.

The six things I could never do without

friends, music, humour, snowboarding , books, my guitar

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Do I want to stay in the same career, where my life is going, how can people like eating pineapple on pizza.

On a typical Friday night I am

Lately, at home. Occasionally having drinks with friends, but haven't been too much the social butterfly recently.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

That I'm terrible at writing on cards, be it farewell, birthday, whatever. Say someone is leaving your workplace, and you see the witty things people write and think "that's funny", then there's the one comment there that says something like "Best of luck in the future", well that's me.
I'm sure this weakness will someday be my downfall.

You should message me if

You think you might have an interesting conversation with me.