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vesicantred

24 / F / gay / Single

Vancouver, Washington

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am sensitive, creative, and spiritual.

My Self-Summary

I am an eternally creative, spontaneous, curious person...I am constantly learning! I love having long intense conversations with people and finding little niches filled with local artistic jewels. My spirituality is by far the most important thing in my life- I am a devotee of Ammachi, also known as the Hugging Saint...I had the opportunity to recieve Her hug May '09. She's pretty much awesome. :)
I take my relationships very seriously and am very loyal to the ones I love. I tend to have a few close friends rather than a bunch of aquaintances. I respect polyamorous folks but don't identify that way personally. I like to spend long hours alone with my guitar. I'm really a 12-year old boy...I'm the person you see dancing by myself while standing in line at winco, hear burst out singing in public, making sound effects for random movements, and playing air guitar on the max. I'm constantly seeking new avenues of self expression and I am very inspired by the creative visions of others. I am a feminist-activist intellectual pagan poet and I love existing between the questions.

What I’m doing with my life

Shortly after I graduated from college with my B.S. in Psychology, I began working full-time as a domestic violence and sexual assault advocate. I am very passionate about the work I do and I never go home feeling like I just wasted 8 hours of my life.

I’m really good at

Being myself... :) Seriously, I love meeting new people and broadening my horizons everyday. I am a spiritual person and I meditate regularly- I am very into the tarot, astrology, hinduism and goddess worship. I love sculpting, painting, writing poetry, and generally existing in a continuously playful, creative state unhindered by standards of how I 'should' act or see the world. Music is by far my favorite method of self expression- I play guitar and often get inspired to write songs.

The first things people usually notice about me

My hair, my unique aura (they say it matches my guitar). I'm told I have a great deal of patience.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Some Favorite Authors/Poets:

Soren Kierkegaard
Franz Kafka
Adrienne Rich
Pablo Neruda
Michael Harner
Cormack McCarthy
Edward Albee
Kate Bornstein
Leslie Feinberg
Emily Dickinson
Alister Crowley
Pablo Neruda
Pat Parker
Audre Lorde
Anne Sexton
Allen Ginsberg
Ernest Hemmingway

The six things I could never do without

Love, spirit, friends, self-expression, music, blurring the definitions

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Spiritual things, how to love others radically, existential questions, affirming myself and others, what role I play in helping to eliminate some of the pain in the world

On a typical Friday night I am

Often I'm reconnecting with friends/ being out and about in my community, whether at a bar, open mic, someone's house, or a satsang. About half the time I opt to spend some precious time alone in a creative cocoon.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Sometimes I have a hard time letting go of the past. But i'm learning

You should message me if

...You're interested in sharing some things about yourself and learning about me.