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vespa5

42 South San Francisco, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, Pacific Islander
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Technology
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a city slicker with a bit of a sarcastic wit. I was born in San Francisco. My two biggest loves in life are running and photography. I do a lot of running. I like to stay physically fit. I also do voluntary work at UCSF usually once a month on my free time. I like positive and funny people.

Update - 4/30/2015: So, just to get this out of the way, I'm an introvert & I'm not at all ashamed for it. However, it gets exhausting when I try to explain myself. Therefore, here's a link to shed some light on what introverts are (and what they are not):
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/15-things-you-might-have-misunderstood-about-introverts.html
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I love running, helping others and hanging out with my friends. I used to be an amateur freelance photographer, but now I just take photos for fun. My friends ARE my family and I don't know what I'd do without them. I'm at that point in my life where I'm trying not to take everything personal.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. It sounds too good to be true, but it's true. One of my main focuses when it comes to interaction with people is the communication aspect of it all.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People who barely know me or just got to know make the assumption that I'm this square guy. When I'm really not. I have a profanity switch that I can flip on or off at the drop of a dime and my whole shoulder is one big tattoo. A quote that best describes me is this: "You'll find I'm full of surprises."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm definitely a Charles Bukowski fan. There are other writers and poets like Hunter S. Thompson, Haruki Murakami, George Orwell, Robert Frost, philosophy from Nietzsche, Kant and I relate to Darwin but I don't totally agree with his ideas, I read a lot of Theists vs. Atheists debates, and The Catcher in the Rye.

I enjoy practically ANY kind of music, and I mean ANY (except Beatles, ask me why if you're curious - lol). I'll listen mostly to alternative, to classical, ska, to rap, to mostly old school hip hop, trip hop, rockabilly music, big band, classical, etc. etc. etc. I don't dig gospel or some country (except for maybe Johnny Cash). I love the Smiths.

"What happens when people open their hearts?"
"They get better."
-Haruki Murakami
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My friends/family
2. Good communication
3. My self-respect/dignity
4. Honesty
5. My dog
6. Living in the moment
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend some time thinking about disabling my OkCupid account. I've gotten my fair share of hits and misses to the point where it can be emotionally and mentally draining.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I generally hit the town (San Francisco) to either watch a live band at a local bar/club, watch a movie, play billiards with friends, check out any local events, etc. etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll have to ask me personally. You'll find I'm full of surprises.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you have any sort of an interest in hanging out and having a good time. If you like conversations that are engaging and are open for challenges and different points of view. Whatever happens, happens albeit platonic or otherwise. Honesty is a big plus.

By the way, I don't believe in the "you can tell within the first 5-minutes" or the "within the first few dates" approach regarding chemistry or if we'd get along. I generally take my time getting to know someone and I don't write people off after only 2-3 dates. I think it's impossible to truly know if there's a spark based off of such a brief stint of time. If I had that kind of approach in life, I would have zero friends in life.