Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am not like most guys around my age:
-I know myself and have defined principles.
-I am a go getter, have a career and ambitions.
-I am sincere, transparent and reliable.
-I have zero interest in flings; I avoid it. I want a meaningful
relationship that will lead to marriage.
-Catholic. (looking for someone similar, eventually)
-"Chaotic good" for those who understand😉
I have nothing to hide. Let meet up and chat!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
1) Sales & management career
2) Prioritising social life and building meaningful
3) Looking for activity partners and potentially someone to spend
my life with.
BUCKET LIST 2015
-Scuba dive license & Redang diving trip
-New Zealand trekking & lotr set visit
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting things done with cross sectional skills.
I have a pretty fantastic imagination growing up on lone wolf &
forgotten realm novels. i drawing manga to bring them out.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I can be very serious looking, because there is always
something about work at the back of my mind. However, there are
other sides to me waiting for people to discover.
That I don't speak much in conversations because I am more of a
listener. i prefer conversation with a purpose, passionate/driven
people. I have niche interests like finance/business/IT/nature
Oh, and I prefer doing things instead of talking about things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
1) Forgotten realm series by ra Salvatore.
2) Chinese swordfighting novels by 金庸.
3) Self development & investment books; too many to
A) Us Drama- Saving Grace, walking dead, game of thrones..
B) Us Reality TV- million dollar listings, the apprentice...
C) Chinese Period- 步步惊心，后宫甄嬛传...
D) Chinese swordfighting- 倚天屠龙记，神雕侠侣，射雕英雄传...
E) Anime- Maison ikkoku, neon genesis evangelion, the last air
Movies with good plots like the sixth sense, usual suspect,
shawshank redemption, a walk to remember, matrix trilogy. Good
action/laugh can compensate for a good plot though
Songs that help me to relax or energize me or gets me to a
- Instrumentals, jazz, oldies, Japanese pop
- Titles from secret garden, sens, kenji kawai, yoko kanno,
evanescence, Olivia Ong, David Tao..
Basically, spicy food, garlic & cheese can never go
i) Japanese-Sashimi, ramen
ii) Italian- Pizza, pasta
iii) Chinese- Soups & dim sum
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My phone because I need it to work & communicate.
2) My cards because nothing is free.
3) My laptop because i need it for work & entertainment.
4) Last but most important, God. He keeps me going and my core
values are formed around those catholism classes in my formative
I could add family and friends but the reality is that I am very
independent emotionally and can do without them for extended period
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Love is more of a characteristic than feeling, it is the ability to
put another's interest before oneself.
Emotion(passion) and commitment(dedication) can strengthen love but
love can exist without it.
E.g agape love
Do most people recognize what they are serching for?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Scheduling my appointments over the weekends.
Lounging at home or reading stuff.
Gymming at night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Its really hard to find a pleasant looking Christian lady who's
sporty & have a career.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You believe something good can come out of this. Solid friendship
or maybe lifetime partnership.
Ideally, I would like to meet people who are:
1) confident: people who know who they are and what are their
forte. Being humble is one thing, false humility is another.
2) driven: constantly improving, being good at eating and sleeping
is not my cup of tea.
3) adventurous: interested in sports, or trekking or even
expeditions. I am physically fit and would like to explore the
oceans, mountains and challenge my physical & mental limits. I
appreciate & respect other talents like music or academic
4) independent: not keen on needy girls, I don't want to lose the
autonomy I enjoy in my life. I have my family, career, business
& friends and my life won't revolve around her solely.
5) educated: capable of basic spelling. I cringe at some profiles
due to the lack of ability to type intelligible words.
6) Critical thinker: able to be reasonable (most of the time,
haha!), has convictions and share discussions.
7) Likes kids and will be a committed co-partner in raising a
I respect your initiative and will always make an effort to reply
but something more than hi would be highly appreciated.
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