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28 M Adelphi Park Estate, Singapore

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 5″ (1.64m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and very serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am not like most guys around my age:

-I am not searching for myself. I have defined principles and integrity
-I am a go getter and have long term goals
-I have a promising career and is financially ready for bigger commitments
-I might not have the most exciting personality but I am someone who's sincere, honest and you can rely on.
-I am not looking for flings or ons, I avoid it in fact. I want a serious relationship that will lead to marriage.

Uni grad.
Real estate sales director

"Chaotic good" for those who understand😉

I am very transparent with nothing to hide. These details should save you lots of question. Let meet up and chat!
What I’m doing with my life
Sales career have stabilized, currently in management nurturing future superstars.

Midst of transition to prioritize my social life & building more meaningful relationships in 2014

I gym at novena Cali fitness 3x weekly.

-4 half marathons-sdm, ham & scm next
-yoga-hatha yoga
-rock climbing
-Internet marketing
-Rome pilgrimage
-Redang diving trip
-New Zealand trekking & lotr set visit
-London culture & real estate trip

-Yoga-currently at 101
-Krav Maga-addicted to the adrenaline

Looking for activity partners and potentially someone to spend my life with.
I’m really good at
Getting things done.
resourceful and flexible because of cross sectional skills. That's why I am doing what I am doing.

I used to be very fit and can complete climbing up & down a hill within 20mins, that counts for something.

I have a pretty fantastic imagination growing up on lone wolf & forgotten realm novels.
i drawing manga to bring them out. Didn't develop this skill much thesedays.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I can be very serious looking, because there is always something about work at the back of my mind. But there are other sides to me waiting for people to discover.

That I don't speak much in conversations because I am more of a listener. i prefer conversation with a purpose, passionate/driven people and I have niche interests like finance/business/IT/nature outdoor/religion.
Oh, and I prefer doing things instead of talking about things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Forgotten realm(medieval fantasy) series by ra Salvatore.
Chinese swordfighting novels by 金庸.
Self development & investment books; too many to mention.

Shows like breaking bad, house of card, saving grace, walking dead, himym, game of thrones, suits, million dollar listings, the apprentice.
Anime like maison ikkoku, neon genesis evangelion, the last air bender, gits...

Movies with good plots like the sixth sense, usual suspect, shawshank redemption, a walk to remember, matrix trilogy. Good action/laugh can compensate for a good plot though

Songs that help me to relax or energize me or gets me to a reflective state.
Instrumentals, jazz, oldies, Japanese anime songs.
secret garden, kenji kawai, yoko kanno, evanescence, Olivia Ong, David Tao ..

Sashimi, spicy food, garlic and cheese can never go wrong.
Japanese cuisine and still exploring..
The six things I could never do without
1) My phone because I need it to work & communicate.

2) My cards because nothing is free.

3) My laptop because i need it for work & entertainment.

4) Last but most important, God. He keeps me going and my core values are formed around those catholism classes in my formative years

I could add family and friends but the reality is that I am very independent emotionally and can do without them for extended period of time. I am physically & financial independent; of course.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why people don't put their pictures or close ups? Do they believe that looks are not a factor in interest from the opposite gender?

Why don't people fill up description about themselves? Do they believe that looks are the sole factor in interest from the opposite gender?

Why don't people fill up their fields? Won't these details like height, smoking preference & religion affect likelihood of meeting an appropriate match?
On a typical Friday night I am
Scheduling my appointments over the weekends.
Lounging at home or reading stuff.
Gymming at night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a sales person so I know how to sell myself, but I am also a catholic so I might have discounted myself in my description.
I am abit of a paradox.

I think I might have exhausted okc database for: straight female/ 22-29/ below 166/ no smoking/ no drugs😳
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You believe something good can come out of this. Solid friendship or maybe lifetime partnership.

I am a nice guy but not really good at babysitting adults. Ideally, I would like to meet people who are:

1) confident: people who know who they are and what are their forte. Being humble is one thing, false humility is another.

2) driven: constantly improving, being good at eating and sleeping is hardly interesting.

3) adventurous: interested in sports, or trekking or even expeditions. I am physically fit and would like to explore the oceans, mountains and challenge my physical & mental limits. I appreciate & respect other talents like music or academic too.

4) independent: not keen on needy girls, I don't want to lose the autonomy I enjoy in my life. I have my family, career & friends and my life won't revolve around her solely.

5) educated: capable of basic spelling. I cringe at some profiles due to the lack of ability to type intelligible words.

I respect your initiative and will always make an effort to reply but something more than hi would be highly appreciated.