Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by
ourselves alone--we find it with another." -Thomas Merton
I believe in this quote, not only in reference to romantic love but
all the relationships that we have: family, friends,
I was born in Puerto Rico, the Island of enchantment, and for
almost 11 years I have been living in the land of enchantment. I
have a dog that takes me for daily walks. I am not much for
planning, at least not in great detail. I am a spiritual person and
accept all paths to God.
I have lived in Puerto Rico, New Jersey, Ohio, California, Peoples
Republic of China and Florida before coming to New Mexico. I have
been in NM since 2003. I speak English and Spanish.
I am looking for a man I can cooperate with, talk to, perhaps share
nice outings and vacations or just cook a meal or work in the
garden together. Simple things, but in life the simple things can
be the most difficult. Humans are not frozen in a particular mode,
life happens, people change, the person who was ideal 20 years ago
can easily be an enemy today. But there are couples who have enough
compatibility to adjust and stay together through life, to be
friends, partners, collaborators. That is what I am looking for and
what I am willing to be.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, planning for retirement. Hopefully, looking for love and
God in all the right places.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, shopping, problem solving, remaining calm under pressure,
writing... I am a good listener and people often seek me for help
or advise and children, dogs and old people like me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my humor, my openness. I have been described as
charismatic, approachable and having a "sympathetic face" whatever
that may mean.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My taste is eclectic. I love Indian, Persian, Italian, Chinese
(mostly northern), African, Mexican, Peruvian, of course Puerto
Rican food, music and movies. I will hope to get to know and love
more cultures before I die. Music touches the heart.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Health, Mind, Appreciation of life, Appreciation of Nature, Music,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Different things at different times. The chaos that we are
currently living. The injustices of the world that do not make any
sense. Pierre Teilhard de Chardin said “The future belongs to those
who give the next generation reason for hope.” I love to be able to
give anyone today that reason for hope.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Privacy is a matter of context. Americans have lots of privacy
laws, in other cultures strangers may ask you lots of those
questions that are covered by laws here and share a lot more than
you would care to know. If you want to know ask or if it comes up
in the conversation I will tell you. One of my best and worst
qualities is being candid.
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