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32 F Santa Barbara, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:29am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I have a ninja assassin cat who thinks she is a dog. I want to learn Korean. I'm deeply suspicious of people who are picky eaters. I'm the friend people call when they need to laugh. I'm currently going deep into yuzu. I'm fiercely loyal to my closest friends. I'll trek for hours to find the right hole in the wall restaurant. I usually fall in love too quickly for my own good. I've been to every continent. I love a good outdoor adventure but also think camping would be way better if it involved hot showers. Basically, I'm pretty damn awesome and if you're awesome too, we should probably hang out and be even MORE awesome together.
What I’m doing with my life
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For the last 10 years I've been traveling and working abroad which has given me some amazing experiences and wonderful friends. I moved to Santa Barbara 2 years ago and can honestly say that I'm in a successful and stable place where I can now focus on a committed relationship. I have a lot of love and support to give and I'm super excited about meeting a special person to share all of life's crazy adventures with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Scuba diving, talking to strangers and sarcastic quips.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a little loud and excited about everything. all. the. time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: John Irving, Marquez, Allende, Life of Pi, A Game of Thrones, Shantaram
Movies: I really hate scary movies
Shows: The Daily Show, The Wire, West Wing, Breaking Bad
Food: When I need a good food hug I eat Korean food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
New experiences
Red wine
The Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Personality types, social psychology.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday's are a toss up.
My ideal Saturday is ...iced coffee and farmers market (hand holding while perusing organic veg, added bonus), hanging out on a patio with friends, outdoor grilling and a fresh salad for dinner, out for drinks or wine with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really like teen dance movies...I know I know....
You should message me if
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You're smart, sarcastic and ambitious but also a bit of a party animal :)