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39 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Okay), Dutch (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I've spent a lot of my life exploring. People, places, etc.

My banter is top shelf and moves between achingly existential, genuinely thoughtful, and downright hilarious.

I'm direct in a casual way, nonchalant but present. Character matters to me.

Sometimes I think I'm part of a dying breed of men who are relaxed, decent, ambitious and can laugh comfortably at themselves. Other times I think I'm just arrogant and delusional.

My sister calls me a “citizen of the world”. Partly because I care and partly because I get around.

People say things like “fluent” and “everywhere”. I’m not fluent and I haven’t been everywhere. But I’ve been to 70 or more countries on 6 continents, lived in 8 countries, and I can make your parents like me in 4 languages.

I have momentum. I build things with my hands, like bikes, computers, decking...

I take photographs and then don't know what to do with them. I even built a website to host them... but that wasn't it.

If you like dark humor we’ll have fun doing anything. Standing in line. Climbing a mountain. Eating a burrito in the street at 4AM. Not because all my humor is dark, or that I'm so "stormy", but simply because it's probably true.

I have friends everywhere. Going on a trip? You should call me and I’ll set you up with someone who knows the ropes. From Polynesia to prison.

I break rules. Or I'm an exception. One of those.

I have a Michael J. Fox charming-thing (they say) and I’m wicked funny (they also say). I’m fit and could can out wander a camel (I say).

I'm mindful about how I contribute to and move through the world. I tip well and look people in the eye when I thank them.

Imperfections and mistakes, the good and bad, are all part of a nutritious breakfast, and a full life.

These sentences are here because it's a dating site, but I don't love how these words awkwardly box up my values... yadda.

I can probably be the best partner out there to someone. Maybe you.
What I’m doing with my life
Lots of jobs, lots of projects: movies, tech, environment, lawyering...

Now I'm a creative exec at a large publishing company. I manage a design team and lead "innovation" programs that look at the future of how people use, create and share information.

Walking the Brooklyn Bridge every morning from Dumbo.

Deciding where to put the cabin, beach or woods?
I’m really good at
Problem solving. Words. Being there when it counts. Making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
My assistant just told me that I remind her of Jason Bateman from Arrested Development (Michael Bluth). I've probably heard that 30 times.

I spark.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Yes. Let's wander this landscape together.
The six things I could never do without
I don't like this question.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Friends and family. To buy or not to buy a place in the city. Paths (bike and life).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My Myers-Briggs is ENTP and it's weirdly accurate.

The problem with this is that I don't like being so... definable... but it's so ENTP not to like that... hmm.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are bright, kind, funny, pretty, clever, sweet, and interesting... or whatever.

You are excited by conversation. Maybe good at crosswords and/or trivia (or at least open to them). You can enjoy equally a quiet or full day... You understand balance.

You're looking for something genuine. That doesn't necessarily mean forever, although that's on the shelf.

And if you're up for an adventure. Anything. A bike ride to Queens or a weekend trip to Greenland. This weekend. I'm actually up for either. I have over a million miles on Delta that I'm itching to use. I really do and really am.

(Psychologically itching. Not like lice.)