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36 M Astoria, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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Maturing more day by day while keeping simple joy at the edges of my mouth ready to burst into my loud laugh.
What I’m doing with my life
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I shoot and edit video and often take my camera with me out to the park just to see what new things I can learn about light.

I try to be a good uncle.

I want to be a good dad someday. I didn't after a hard break up four years ago, but we grow, heal and gain perspective. We will know if it is right. As I say elsewhere, we will know if we owe it to the world to combine our genes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting a fix on the personalities of others... unless we are dating in which case I'm flying blind for some reason.
Cooking: read as- can read and apply directions... done enough times the recipe book can go away and experimentation happens.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Blue eyed smiling face. Broad shoulders.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Crime and Punishment, Siddhartha, The First American

Movies: The Seven Samurai, Office Space, they've lost their effect but I saw all of the LOTR movies more times then I'd care to admit. "The Girl With The Pearl Earring" is one of the most beautifully lit movies I've ever seen. I stumbled on it about 15 minutes in and the first shot I saw stopped me in my tracks. Recently I've seen "Silver Linings Playbook" and the soundtrack is now underscoring a bunch of my work.

I like Dexter, True Blood, Sparticus, Walking Dead. Transformers Prime.

My musical taste is diverse, but I warn you, my library is consumed by music that could go into a wedding video (this includes Muse... so take from that what you will).

As far as food is concerned I have an adventurous taste when I'm out, and cook several tasty but homey meals.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My niece
Water (I drink water, coffee and beer and in that order and not much else... unless I pull it together to juice something)
Unprocessed food.
Art in its' many forms
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about thinking. Thinking about the way memory works, how learning works. I think about the multverse, teleportation, doing "good things", and I think a lot about what's funny. Which is nearly everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
1. I have a wedding to shoot the next day, so if I've been out with friends I go home early and make sure my bags are set... but usually I've spent the day drinking lots of water, reading books and cleaning gear. I might watch a movie or watch other people's work to get ideas for tomorrow.

2. No wedding! I may be at a gallery opening, a craft brew bar, tasty restaurant with friends

The truth is my schedule is so very much what I make it, any night of the week could be my Friday night. This presents some opportunity and some complications.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've grown tired of my lost generation of 30 something males with no drive, ambition or sense of personal life responsibility. And I was one of them. I have no patience for them now.
You should message me if
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You should just message me. Seriously... that's what we are here for right? To meet people we wouldn't otherwise encounter, is the goal.

You are a librarian, scientist, lawyer, full time nerd, someone that likes museums, trying new things, and sees a wrong turn as a part of life not the end of the world.