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viennawaits55

22 / M / gay / Single

Tucson, Arizona

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
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Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
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Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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I am Thoughful, Genuine, and a Music Fanatic.

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My Self-Summary

I am an easy going, passionate, thoughtful, and funny guy. I am also very family oriented and look for others who have a strong family background as well. My friends are also very important to me, and I consider them as parts of my extended family.

I'm looking for someone who is also pretty easy going, honest, straight forward, intelligent, put-together, driven, and who doesn't take himself too seriously.

I am a music fanatic, a truly genuine person, and I love to talk with others and learn about them.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm just about to begin a PhD program in psychology and am new to Tucson. I am a researcher and therefore can get a bit over-excited about things such as gender identity and socialization, and familial relations. I'd like to think it's charming in a way.

I’m really good at

Listening to others and truly hearing them, reading people, singing, and being an over-achiever.

The first things people usually notice about me

Is that I'm a nice guy, my genuine interest in others, and my eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

The Great Gatsby, Catcher in the Rye, Running with Scissors, psychology books (e.g., Carol Gilligan)

Drop Dead Gorgeous, Volver, Wall-E, Kill Bill (Vol.2 ), Mean Girls

Side note: I am addicted to the Food Network. It could turn into a problem if I ever possess enough time to actually watch TV.

Billy Joel, Stevie Wonder, Alicia Keys, John Legend, Jason Mraz, Aretha Franklin, Michael Buble, Lauryn Hill, Regina Spektor, (old) Mariah Carey, Weezer, Dixie Chicks, Christmas music, Corinne Bailey Rae, some Broadway, Ella

Thai food, my Mom's homemade tomato sauce, quiche, ranch dressing

The six things I could never do without

My family & friends.
Tap water.
My Mac/Internet.
My desire to learn & research (this one probably shouldn't count).
Everlasting Gobstoppers.
My ability to sing.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I'm going to eat next, my future and how I'm going to accomplish my grandiose plans, when I'm going to see my family/friends next, how pervasive gender stereotyping is in our everyday experiences (yeah, I'm a nerd).

On a typical Friday night I am

Either out at a pub/bar, catching up on my TV shows on Hulu, doing school work, or hanging out with friends at home.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm a very open person and there isn't too much about my life that is private. However, one thing that I am not too forthcoming about is my ridiculous fear of getting a dairy product on my body and having it spoil. Yes, that is extremely bizarre and crazy of me, but we all have our things.

You should message me if

I haven't scared you away with my fear of spoiled milk...or more ideally, you are interested in learning more about me.

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