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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Yesterday – 7:45pm
Hispanic / Latin
Relationship Type
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Catholicism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
When I'm not busy with work, I'm just a normal guy looking to have fun, relax. I can be someone that is easy to get along with on a 1 to 1 basis. When motivated, I'm willing to get out on the field, wether it's out of my norm or not.

I am goal driven, thoughtful, and loyal. (updating profile as of Jan '15)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Shaping the future generation, teach one group of students at a time. When I'm not at work, I unwind with friends. I also follow local teams such as Sacramento Kings (which has been hard, but you support in good & bad years), Bay Area Baseball & Football teams- not a hard core fan, but I watch or listen to them frequently.
I'm able to work well with most young students, but trying to get the stubborn ones to co-operate will always be a part of the challenge. Now hitting the gym on a regular basis lifting weights, swimming laps and occasionally with a trainer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good listener and a friend. I am a person that thinks of others & do 'the little things' well, offer help when least expected kind of guy. I'm attentitive to what I care about. I do my best on knowing a person over time.
Usually I'm good with making pasta- chicken Fettuchini Alfredo, lasagnae, or other cooking with instructions.

I'll admit that I grew up with video games mainly role playing like Final Fantasy, also had a World of Warcraft phase but that was several years ago (Burning Crusade era to Lich King).
I play board/ table games that don't get a lot of press in the mainstream (EuroGames) ie Sabatour, Agricola, Power Grid. Usually play at meet ups or at a convention along with tabletop RPGs.

I can do my own taxes if that matters to anyone.

I'm tech savvy, helping my parents. I can be a 1st step before calling in the professional computer guy/gal. I've installed a new hard drive, laptop hd enclosure, DVD drive, memory. It can be intimidating, but it was simple when it's all said & done.

I have been teaching in the classroom & I've been appreciated by several staff members at various sites. "One of the best subs... you can have." One older woman (5th grade teacher near end of school yr) said I restored her faith in male teachers, actually getting involved, going around the class vs being relaxed & letting them go wild-- take that for whatever it's worth. I've been told this more as sub teachers are getting harder to find.

Being loyal-- when I know a person for a long time, I am usually willing to go out of my way for that person.

I can surprise you when you least expect it. I don't mean to, but when I go to say hi to some people, they don't see me right away. I do make it work for me as I use it to catch students trade notes & other shinanegans. I've been known to put my own foot in my mouth & don't really know my way with women. You know- the guy that says the wrong thing but is really trying to make a compliment-- GUILTY.
The first things people usually notice about me
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When people hear me laughing, some join in because it's my out of control lauging. Appearance can be a coin flip of collared dress shirt & slacks or casual t-shirt & jeans. I can make people laugh at either my voice acting, or laughing at my voice acting.

People also are surprised at my age, I've been mistaken as a minor (not as much now) or a very young adult, it's a "blessing and a curse". Also known to be very friendly & helpful-- proved by a few people who I met on the train going home in the past.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) Harry Potter series, The Read-Aloud Handbook (Jim Trelease), To Kill a Mockingbird, and a side project to have a Steinbeck collection & Fantasy novels (Lord of the Rings etc)

B) the big blockbusters such as Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, comic book movies , Taken, but I can also appreciate drama ie Real Women have Curves, comedy ie Fever Pitch or Something about Mary, and more films than I can type up.
B2--TV) Big Bang Theory . Just recently got into Modern Family, Once Upon a Time and Law & Order SVU, through reruns or via Netflix.

Used to watch One Tree Hill, Buffy as a teen. Daily Show, Colbert Report, Glee, HIMYM are also part of my tv past.

C) Major music composers: John Williams (Star Wars series) & Nobuo Uematsu (Final Fantasy video game series),
types: I listen and appreciate most music, from classic rock ie Led Zepplin to classical symphonic music-- and loves the blending of pop symphony ie Beat it & Poker Face (youtube those examples), or Black Violin for R&B trhough classical insturments. I dabble my ears into many different styles of music.

D) Mexican food- moms coming, Chinese food , I also am starting to warm up on some Sushi- just started on some raw.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not including the Essentials (food, water, air, shelter) they would be
*a 'lifeline' to family -- gotta see them atleast once a year in person/ visit whatever,
*internet (for gaming, work, TV episodes & IMing friends from out of the local area),
*my credentials for work,
*My Chevy to get to work/ see family,
* Cellphone- without it, can't get work calls or post to possible dates
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm aiming to take the next step from subbing to full time teaching.

How many of us actually remembers a substitute of theirs?! Even though I am a substitute teacher, some kids are starting to know me through-out the years. Wow-- never imagined the day where I see some students I met are finishing up their schooling/ graduated.

When does the nice guy finish?

What type of workout should I do when I go to the gym: more muscle cardio machine, swimming?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Some Sunday afternoons or other off times I roll funny looking dice & explore ruins w/ others (play tabletop RPGs).

Hit the gym as stated above, getting leaner (hopefully not a meaner) guy
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm old fashioned & new generation-- I believed in having just 1 person for the rest of your life, until last year.

I waited until after 30 but still learning in relationships.
You should message me if
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You want to get to know a good guy. Honestly wanting someone to talk to, to know a woman & for her to know me.