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45 • Edmond, OK • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–44
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 10:45am
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Libra, but it doesn’t matter
- Dropped out of university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently)
My best friends are women. I'm not sure why, exactly, but it just works better that way. I have male friends, but they tend to be those I've worked with or want to work with in some way rather than just "hanging out" buddies, if you take my meaning.
I have references. See the links in the "You should message me if" section at the bottom.
I am arty, extroverted, and quick-witted.
I love fantasy and science fiction (in that order) books, art, and movies, and I enjoy comic books. As an artist (which I am when my muse is being cooperative), my specialties are fine art portraits, fantasy illustration, and comic illustration.
I am a renaissance faire enthusiast and sometimes participant, a member of and frequent participant with the Society for Creative Anachronism (SCA), and I participate in Viking Age historical re-enactment, where my interests include costuming and crafts of the period and "live steel" combat.
I'm not at all religious, being essentially atheist (agnostic may be closer to accurate; to quote Penn Jillette, "You don't have to be brave or a saint, a martyr, or even very smart to be an atheist. All you have to be able to say is 'I don't know'."), but I have some views that would earn me the name "pagan" (or "neo-pagan" if you prefer, though I'm not overly fond of either term) from many, and my philosophy leans strongly toward the tenets espoused by many followers of Asatru (I have no problem with the term "heathen"), though I don't follow any religion, I don't believe in the literal existence of any god(s) or goddess(es), and my overall views of spirituality and my philosophy of life are actually quite eclectic if put in terms of matching established schools of thought. Confused yet?
Movies: The Lord of the Rings trilogy; Star Wars (the original three, episodes 4-6); tons of comedies, both brilliant and cheesy, so many that I dare not name names.
Music: A very WIDE variety. I like at least something from most genres of music, though I have a particular affinity for heavy metal, progressive rock, power metal, and folk in many forms from many places. Favorites include Dream Theater, Kamelot, Fates Warning, Spock's Beard, Stan Rogers,and many, many more. I'm also very happy to put on a classic rock radio station and just leave it. The things I don't like are insipid pop crap, the vast majority of hip hop, especially rap, most more recent country (much of which isn't really country anymore, if you ask me), and most modern heavy rock, especially the horrid movement that was "nü metal." In short, I don't like the majority of the things you'll hear on mainstream hit radio.
Food: I like a lot of different things, but over the last few years it's become increasingly obvious that my favorites are various Asian and Mediterranean foods, especially Thai, Indian, and Greek.
(Okay, okay! I've removed the more literal items of air, water, food, sleep, and replaced them with things I don't WANT to do without.)
Also, if you're not put off by polyamory. I don't limit my ability to love to just one person, nor do I believe such limits are natural or healthy. I have some very special women in my life, though none is a "girlfriend," as it were. They are my best friends in the world, treehouseFLY, KrakenSkulls (whom I met here on OkCupid), and another who is not an OkCupid user; one lives on the east coast but has spent a great deal of time in Oklahoma with me this past year, and the other two live on the west coast (separately), each with her spouse and extended family. All of us have played different roles in one another's lives at one point or another, and the nature of these relationships is constantly evolving and changing. These are my besties, my confidants, my partners-in-crime, and I love them all, truly, madly, deeply. If you're OK with that, so are they, and will be glad to call you friend if you're cool. Seriously, click on the links and ask them. I got references, yo! ;)
On the other hand, if you think "polyamorous" just means "slut," you are sorely mistaken and should just move along, or at the very least do a little research. Thank you.
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