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33 M New York, NY

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Today – 6:41pm
6′ 0″ (1.82m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Is pour-over drip coffee a fad? Sure there are incredible single origin beans in the world, but you can easily craft a drip machine to accomplish that, right?

I am a rational optimist.
I work in the analytical field but I'm an artist at heart.
I crunch numbers and run projects for a living, but I'm quite romantic when it comes to friendship and relationships.

Well lived. Well traveled. My life trajectory so far:
Taipei->Vancouver->Toronto->Sapporo->Tokyo->Boston->New York
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I reread what was here and I must have written it drunk before. Hence the re-write. So here goes:

A zillion things I want to do right now: reading, writing, drawing, painting, dancing, playing music, starting companies, getting filthy rich. But only one thing at a time (currently starting a business). At times I do notice how some of these goals are at odds with one another.

I'm also trying to help people whenever I can. In big ways like matchmaking, job introduction, business hookups; in small ways like giving generously to good street performers, and chatting up strangers. It makes me happy too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Visualizing people and buildings into sketches in lines and ink.
- Selectively forgetting things (bad experiences especially)
- Telling stories (it feels good to see people cry or laugh at them)
- Making movie/tv references
- Picking up peculiar words
- Getting distracted by background music and songs ("wait, this is one of my favorite songs!")
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't ask what people noticed about me, nor do I care, so this is what I guess:

- Talkative.
- Know a good deal of random things in depth.
- Good listener.
- My asymmetrical hairstyle

p.s. I notice girls all write about their physical features do guys do the same? I am completely oblivious of how I look aside from the fact I'm Asian.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: Into Thin Air, Fooled by Randomness, Grapes of Wrath, The Wind-up Bird Chronicle. Michael Lewis, Kundera, Murakami. New Yorker

Movie: Groundhog Day, Cafe Noir, Before Sunset, Eternal Sunshine, Mulholland Drive, Kieslowski

Music: The Shins (James Mercer is a poet!), Crystal Castles, Spoon, the XX. The Strokes, Arcade Fire, the Pixies, DCFC
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Coffee
- Black & White photography (lo-fi)
- Twitter (need to curate my thoughts)
- Hair wax
- Swiffer

How about things I can surprisingly do without:
- music
- jeans (I don't have any)
- data plan, until last summer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Small -> Big
- How to compose current happening into a kickass B&W photo
- The peculiar case of New York City scaffolding a.k.a. semi-permanent fixtures
- My next blog post
- Where to travel next
- How to find balance between capitalism and socialism
- How are we going to live in the future
- My startup
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catch up with friends over dinner
Gallery hopping.
Chilling at a bar.
Relaxing at home.
Working on my startup.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't watch scary movies.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're an animal lover.
You are full of imagination.
You have passions and you work toward them.
You have a good smile.
You're laid-back.