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45 M Ukiah, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:49am
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
During the week, I run a winery in one of the most beautiful spots in Northern California. For fun, I love running over to the coast for abalone diving and surfing. I play and coach sports, work out and stay active - anything outdoors and especially in the water. We can go SCUBA diving - I'm a certified instructor and taught in SoCal for about 10 years. I strive to be a great dad. I love my kids, and I am excited for what life serves up next.

What else? Well, I'm confident but definitely not arrogant, humble in fact, educated, smart, funny and quick witted for sure. I believe in striving for integrity and doing the right thing, and yes... I am also a bit old-fashioned, chivalrous, and know how to be a man (what's wrong with holding a door open anyway?). I'm also the person who moves the snake off the road so it won't get run over, and throws away trash on the beach. Friends say I'm just not photogenic and a heck of a lot better looking in person - can't exactly tell if that is a compliment or not....hmmm...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being open to whatever crosses my path and finally finishing remodeling my house!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being at home outside
Remodeling and building most anything
Making kids laugh (and adults too)
Being your tour guide in nature and the wild....including catching dinner...
Witty banter - don't even try...
Name That Tune
Holding my breath underwater
Being appreciative of those I love
Cooking something tasty from whatever is in the
Wine and calling BS on wine pretense
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height at 6'5 (you'll never lose me unless you want to...), my sense of humor (see above), and my blue/green eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love all kinds of music and especially live shows. Classic Rock, 80's, 90's, Reggae, Ska, Cool Sinatra type lounge music, classical, pop, some old metal, hair bands, and even a little bit of old school rap (NWA?)...
Food? Yes please. Love all kinds. Sushi...yep. Italian, Mexican, Thai, Vietnamese, Korean, French, good old BBQ, whatever.
Movies - mostly comedies lately. The Hangover I and II, Brides Maids, actions movies, romantic comedies (don't tell my guy friends), suspense, you name it. Not into horror though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My kids
2. Endorphins
3. Nature and the water - preferably clear and warm!
4. Laughs and Affection
5. Board shorts and flip flops
6. A hot shower and a comfy bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately? Trying to make my new house and acreage into the vision I have for it.
Who to spend my time with
How to be a better parent and person every day
Nice people
How to eat healthy and fit in my gym/exercise time
Dreaming of surfing, floating down a lazy river, freediving 75' down someplace like Fiji or Palau, stuff like that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Oh, it depends on the day right? Could be a night to hit the gym or workout then relax with a rental movie and a glass of good wine on the couch (perks of the job!). Maybe cooking dinner with friends, heading out for some good food, watching live music, putting my feet up by the pool in the summer, playing with the kids, pounding nails at the house, heading out on a road trip, you name it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I almost died playing intercollegiate rugby. No joke!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are kind, genuine, funny, witty, smart, fit, feminine, love being active and healthy, and would like to meet a great guy who knows how to treat a lady and isn't looking for a hook-up.

Bonus points if you are a water person, you love kids and animals and they love you too.