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vintage_girl

35 F Somerville, MA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 31
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm a secretly shy person who makes up for it by playing the comedian. I might look all put together, but truthfully I'm an insufferable goofball. It won't take you long to see that side of me. I have a very active brain with lots of thoughts. In other words, I will talk to you and use big words. If you like your women lovely and dumb, look elsewhere.

I am not a skinny girl, nor am I a fat girl. Ideally, I would be referred to as a womanly woman. I am so blind without my glasses/contacts that if we were living in caveman times, I'd have been left behind for the wolves years ago. Seriously if the apocalypse happens tomorrow, I'd be completely fucked without these spectacles. Sometimes I wear cowboy boots. Sometimes I wear a corset. Sometimes I wear yoga pants and a baggy t-shirt but never will I wear this out of the house.

Re-learning french, teaching myself how to make tonkotsu broth ramen, and falling in love are my three New Year's Resolutions and the last one is the only one I'm slacking on. I used to be really good at falling in love, but as it turns out, falling is pretty painful. I must be entirely insane because I find myself there at the edge, ready and willing to fall again.
What I’m doing with my life
5 days a week I'm an event coordinator for a coworking space. Other days I'm a waitress at a bar. And the days in between that I'm a painter, social butterfly, and a really good friend. In other words, I'm a busy lady...
I’m really good at
painting, drawing, dancing around like an idiot, holding my liquor, making people laugh, movie watching, eating actual food (i'm not a salad girl), making breakfast (I'm serious, I'm the master of all things breakfast), public speaking, interneting, tart baking, fixing things that are broken, just about anything i put my mind to
The first things people usually notice about me
Lately it's my bright red hair. They also seem to love my magnetic personality and my uncanny ability to charm the pants off of mostly everyone. Oh and let's be honest, my cleavage is pretty fascinating for most people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
movies: Sci-Fi, mostly every movie that Wes Anderson has ever done, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Auntie Mame, Star Wars (no not those, the good ones.) I just saw HER and I loved it.

books: Sci-Fi, Jane Austen, Andy Warhol, and books with pictures in them (painter), I recently read Patti Smith's "Just Kids" and it may have destroyed my soul. Right now I'm reading the Song of Ice and Fire series. Before that I re-read several William Gibson books. I like Neil Gaiman. I like graphic novels. I even like certain comics.

TV: I have a giant flat screen, I don't have time to bother with cable so I watch things on Netflix/Hulu. Lately it's been a lot of Star Trek TNG and Dr Who binges on my laptop.

music: I wish I could just post a link to my extensive itunes library... but since that's illegal on the intarweb I like everything from David Bowie, to Goldfrapp, from Cat Stevens, to Cat Power, from Hall and Oates, to Bon Iver and back again... there isn't a lot of music that I won't listen to as long as it's made well and you can dance and/or sing along to it, though I don't listen to a lot of crappy top 40's stuff (Lately it's just been a mix of Beach House, Beyonce and Bear in Heaven... on a B kick, apparently)

food: I love vegetables. In fact it's hard to find a vegetable that I won't eat. I like mostly every animal as well. I also enjoy fish and most things from the sea. I like fresh, well cooked, well portioned food and I love eating/cooking with others.
The six things I could never do without
laughter, love, taste, touch, sight, sound,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
inspiration for paintings, what i'm going to wear in the morning, what i want to eat, lost loves, places i want to visit, things i want to write about and share with others, song lyrics, whether or not i want to have children, my drive across country, san francisco, how tired i am, how to approach people, how much i miss my grandfather, how much laundry i have to do, why people are often so inconsiderate to servers at restaurants, dreams i've had, sexual relations...
On a typical Friday night I am
having dinner at some awesome restaurant I haven't tried yet, or at a local dance night dancing my little ass off with my friends, or out seeing one of my friend's bands, or running off to NYC to visit people, or sleeping... sometimes just sleeping needs to happen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Despite the fact that I come across as a crazy party girl, I'm actually looking for real partnership with someone.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Ok here's where I tell you flat out: I don't want to waste my time talking to some dude who's idea of a good date is going to [insert terrible sports bar here], watching football instead of talking to me, having 12 bud lights, and inviting me to screw in the bathroom. If you aren't a cool, artistic, creative, person who is pursuing goals and dreams don't bother messaging me. That being said, I'd like to talk with people who think painting is cool, even if they don't know how to paint, people who like art even if they don't know how to talk about it, people who'd rather spend their last dime on the hills of Tuscany than never get there because they are too cheap, people who like to dance, people with an ear for music, people who maybe wrote a few love poems when they were a teenager, people with goals and visions of the future, people who are kind to strangers, and people who will be kind to me no matter what sort of mood they come home with.