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violetdusk

60 / F / Straight / Single

Brookeville, Maryland

Her Details

Last Online
May 16
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Political / Government
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French

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My self-summary
I am a warm, attractive, intelligent, and accomplished woman seeking a companion for theatre, film, concerts, art exhibitions, dancing, foreign travel, intellectual discourse, friendship, and romance. I have a Ph.D. in psychology from Yale, am a senior executive with the Federal government, play keyboard and sing in a Celtic band, and enjoy creative writing.

I was born and raised in Washington, D.C., and have politics in my blood. I live near Olney, Maryland, about a 30-minute drive north of Washington in Montgomery County, and frequently go into town for cultural and social events.

I both relish my independence and crave the connection of a long-term relationship. I dream of a love strong enough to allow our creative aspirations to flourish jointly and singly, born of common interests, acceptance, and admiration that sustain and inspire us.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a senior executive with the Federal government in mental health policy and write fiction after hours. I am starting to study literature and creative writing, and recently joined a Celtic band on keyboard and vocals.

In the past few years, I've traveled for pleasure to London, Paris, Tuscany, St. Maarten, and Cancun. I'd like to visit India, China, Russia, and South Africa.

Lately, I've been listening to some of The Teaching Company's Great Courses in literature, philosophy, religion, political science, and history. I am currently reading a textbook on creative writing and listening to a course on European history.

I love theatre, film, art, dance, reading, writing, and most kinds of music. Recent favorite productions were "Red Hot Patriot" at the Arena and "Over the Tavern" at Olney Theatre. For the past five years, I've had a New Year's Eve party at my house with a Celtic band and other live music.
I’m really good at
Intellectual study and discourse, writing, cooking, dancing, throwing parties. Self-possessed and socially adept. A loving and supportive friend and companion.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm attractive, slender, have curly blond hair, am friendly, warm, and straighforward.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books are by: Tom Wolfe, Truman Capote, Henry James, Edith Wharton, F. Scott Fitzgerald, William Faulkner. Favorite movies: Breakfast at Tiffany's and The Long Hot Summer. Favorite playwright: Tennessee Williams. Favorite music: Chopin, Dusty Springfield, Allison Krauss, Coltrane, Janis Joplin, Jimi Hendrix, Motown, Jerry Lee Lewis, Sam Cooke, Patti Smith, The Civil Wars. Favorite food: mangos.
The six things I could never do without
Love, spiritual connection, literature, art, music, reflection.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Retiring from the Federal government and studying literature and creative writing. Finding a partner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually out with friends. Sometimes at home reading, cooking, or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My grandfather, a Progressive, was the first person to register as a domestic lobbyist with the Federal government.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 57–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You are an intelligent, intellectual, attractive, kind, compassionate, and self-reflective man who wants to fall in love.