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31 Fishkill, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I consist mainly of limbs, a torso and a head. I like music. Like, a lot.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work full time as an electrical engineer for the local power company. When I'm not doing that, I'm making music! At any given time, I'm involved in 4-5 different musical ensembles (bands, choruses, string quartets...yes, all of those have been plural at one time or another). I also enjoy hiking, biking, playing tennis and other active-type things.

I also really enjoy writing! I tried to write a novel once...

I love to live life and learn new things and have new experiences!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
In no particular order: Being punctual. Doing what I say I'm going to do. Making bad puns. Not dwelling on things over which I have no control. Being optimistic. Keeping calm. Fake sneezing. Sight-reading music. Harmonizing. Logical thinking. Being a nice person. Breaking zippers. Over-using emoticons. Failing to remember lyrics to songs I have heard a bazillion times. I am also utterly exceptional at spilling water all over myself while attempting to drink out of a cup.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably that I'm carrying some kind of instrument. :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I really liked Woman on the Edge of Time (Marge Piercy). And Fried Green Tomatoes (Fanny Flagg). And Kite Runner (Khaled Hosseini). And the Harry Potter series. I tend to go long periods without reading much (except for the news) and then binge-read a bunch of things in a row. Totally healthy.

Movies: Groundhog Day, Little Miss Sunshine, American Beauty, Forrest Gump, Ghost. Lots of others...

Shows: I don't watch anything on a regular basis anymore, but Modern Family, Big Bang Theory, 30 Rock, and Parks and Recreation are ones that have tickled my funny bone. I have also watched and enjoyed Dexter and Breaking Bad. OITNB.

Music: I am drawn to acoustic-y songs with pretty melodies. I also like anything I can dance to. Sometimes I'll turn on the classical music station or NPR. A small sampling of artists I like: Regina Spektor, Alexander Borodin, Ingrid Michaelson, Kishi Bashi, Coldplay.

Food: I'm a big fan. Indian, Thai, Greek, Mexican, Italian, yum! I'm not terribly picky, except that I don't like any kind of seafood. I do have a sweet tooth, but I try to eat healthfully most of the time. I don't eat a ton of meat, but I'm not planning to give it up anytime soon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
For the most part, I think humans are more adaptable than we give ourselves credit for.

I would not spontaneously combust without coffee, hot showers or internet, but I very much enjoy those things.

My family, friends and music are very important to me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Planning of practical things, like what should I do tonight? What should I make for dinner? What should my next song be about? What should I write in my OKCupid profile? :P

I'm mostly very present and in-the-moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a few drinks at a local bar where live music is going on. Or hanging out in a coffee shop. Or cooking dinner and hanging out at a friend's house. Or seeing a movie or play. Or home writing a song. I'm game for just about anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hm. I'll get back to you on that one.
You should message me if
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You want to. But especially if any/most of the following apply:
- You want to make music with me!
- Related to the above: you would be interested in joining an LGBT chorus that meets in Kingston...
- You like to cook...or maybe you even grow your own food! I have major respect for people who do that.
- You have a witty and/or random sense of humor.
- Rutabaga.