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37 M Torrance, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 28, 2013
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from space camp
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), Other (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Twas brillig and the slithy toves
Did gyre and gimbel in the wabe.

We could use more nonsense in the spirit of Lewis Carroll. I'm convinced that we would benefit as a planet if we had more jesters, satirists, and comedians of all stripes.

The wacko, absurd, and Dada isn't gone from the world.
It's here. It's in you and me.
We just need to magnify it.
Turn the volume up to eleven.

Imagine how much less crime and punishment there would be if we had more nonsense. Imagine the childlike laughter that would ring through the streets if we shared more play amid the work. More humor. More non sequiturs. Less stress. Less illness.

Let's do this dance.
What I’m doing with my life
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Producing film projects, writing, collaborating with my long-time producing partner, running an educational business, developing new productions including a pinup photography project.

Empowering other creatives and students is certainly the rewarding part of the day that's "work" related. It's a beautiful thing when you enjoy what you do--but that's just "work." It's the means to the end.

Musically, I've returned to more jamming on the bass with friends and messing with the acoustic guitar once in a while. Music via playing and dancing is the best dialogue you can have without talking.

A bit more hiking, cycling, cooking, and eating tasty tastes whenever possible. If you've got a wetsuit we should hop in the Pacific for some free diving or scuba action.

What else... Checking out live tunes, theater, or museums about town. Meditation, yoga more frequently always helps.

I also get consistently owned by my little sister when we play Scrabble. She seems to have mastered all the possible two- and three-letter words in English. Ya.

I haven't done as much camping, diving, backpacking as I would like, but if you have some gear and are jonesing for some forest exploration, let's look at a map together. Pick a spot.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
explaining, fixing busted stuff, cooking, motivating, throwing dinner parties, singing in the car, networking, throwing down a bass line in the pocket, connecting good people, forgetting languages I once knew better...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! inability to be serious for too long? You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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To claim favorites is to disregard much too much. I'm not avoiding committing, I just don't have single favorites.

Recently: Frederik Pohl, David Quammen, Heinlein, Ursula K. LeGuin, Joseph Campbell, George R.R. Martin, and books about crows and corvids for a fiction project. If you're into birds, I suggest anything by Bernd Heinrich.

Film / TV / Opera / Vaudeville: it's all up for discussion. Preferably over hoppy or bubbly beverages.

Beats: most anything with a sense of musicality. Most grooves with a mean wah pedal, or a banjo, and anything with a duduk. The AM and PM tracks on Kcrw.

Chow: All good food cooked with soul, passion, and a kick in the pants. Crepes, crumpet, creole, all that. Fresh = as little time elapsed from the sustainable farm to the table. In my other career life, I went to culinary school and cooked in some crazy professional kitchens... which is another conversation.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Artistic expression.
Human interaction.
Love in any of its varied forms.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
nature, human behavior, stories, future adventures, the absurd, the present.

More recently, I've mused about that one ship some people talk about, you know the ship? That bit about "someday"... now, dig this: your ship is *not* going to come in someday-- it's already here. It's at the dock ready for you to embark, but you're looking in the wrong place. Or you're still on your derriere pondering, "When is my ship going to come in?" Stop pondering, get moving, boogie.

If you fancy the word "derriere" then we really must chat.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not predictably in any particular place with certain people among good food and drink and song and merrymaking... but I could be.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How about a corny joke instead?

So this farmer has 3 gorgeous daughters who are all getting primped and preened for their dates on a Friday night. The first beau comes to the door and says, ''I'm Eddie, I'm here to pick up Betty. We're going for spaghetti, is she ready?''

"No," says the farmer.

A moment later, the second beau comes to the door and says, ''I'm Joe, I'm here to pick up Flo to take her to the show. Is she set to go?''

"No," says the farmer.

The third beau comes to the door and greets the farmer, ''Hello, my name is Chuck--''

The farmer shoots Chuck.
You should message me if
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...the urge strikes you. Be friendly, say howdy. If you stop by to visit without being cordial, 'tis a shame. want to trade awesome recipes. Or locations of awesome restaurants. build stuff. Or play dress-up. Or make-believe.