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virginiasounder

50 F Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 30
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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[UPDATE]
I am in a committed, enduring and long-term relationship with Born2BaWild1 who shares my passions for wine, women and song. We are actively and with great dedication, searching for another woman to be part of a long-term, serious triadic relationship. This doesn't mean that we are averse to meeting a unicorn for play. Only that we both crave a more permanent relationship, above and beyond the proverbial "threesome." If you think you might fit the bill, please check out his profile. We are a pair--a matched set--and we live and play and love as a team.

[ORIGINAL]
I am Bi-sexual, NOT bi-curious. Which means I've been in relationships with women and love women and men. I DESPISE the term "bi curious".

I love sex, I crave it all the time and no matter how strong people say their libido is, I have yet to meet the person who can keep up with my desire for sex. People believe they are kinky, sexy or interesting when they say "oh, phew, my libido...I'm insatiable." I have found 98% of the time, that is usually, not the case. I can be as kinky as you wanna be or pretty vanilla. It's all about the connection, the conversation, that thing with someone that goes "click".

I love tattoos, I have about 8. A few are reminders of past loves and I will eventually have my entire left side inked.

I believe that "omitting" things is the same as lying, except you're only pretending to yourself, not to those around you. Usually, when I ask you a question, it's because I already know the answer and I'm waiting for you to show your true colors. I do not believe in monogamy and I do believe that what's good for the goose is good for the gander. Tell me "NO" and I'lll accept the challenge. I don't believe in marriage but I do believe in being in a committed relationship and an open relationship can be committed if the other person truly understands what it means to "have your back".

I am a professional, intelligent, well-travelled woman. I love my job, I love life and I've done just about everything you can think of.

My feelings for someone are independent of theirs and won't change because of how they feel. I am fiercely loyal, I love sex, I think women are gorgeous and I love masculine men. I enjoy BDSM. I'm kinkier than you could ever be and can play with the best of them.

Reading the "right books" and knowing the "right" foods to impress people means nothing if common courtesy, decency, and true HONEST caring for others and their feelings isn't part of who you are.
I have found that not many people- non-monogamous, "polyamorous" or "open"-understand what true honesty means.
No matter how much they swear to be honest and being an "open book".
-BTW: ladies, my man is my best friend. No matter how friendly he is outside of "us" i can hold my hand to the fire and know, without a shred of doubt, that he will NEVER go against what we have together. So please message him, flirt and converse all you like. But I can guarantee you, you aren't going to get far if "we" aren't in agreement. (Yes, I'm confident and yes, he shows me ALL your messages)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"forgive those who have made your soul bleed."
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm very out-going and start conversations with random strangers, usually excusing myself with, "I'm from the East coast, we are pretty obnoxious".
I usually wear ridiculously high heels, and there is no such thing as "too high".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My two older kids are musicians. I have no ear, can't sing worth beans, but love to pretend I can.

I love everything from abba to Zappa!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My three children- other than that I've learned that everything is expendable, nothing means anything and everything means whatever you wish it to mean.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-The Seattle Sounders. Cut me and I bleed green and blue.
-How amazing humans are, some of the most wonderful advise comes from the strangest of relationships.
-"Instead of leaving a better planet for your children, why not think about leaving better children for the planet."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Think about Saturday's Sounders game! Off season, there is no "typical".
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You like to talk about yourself, your adventures and your life.
-You've ever been outside the US.
-You would consider living in a triad.
-You have your head on straight but like to be taken care of.
-You are NOT a guy.