I really enjoy fun, creative, deep intellectual people as well as dark and mysterious people and the deep, organic, meaningful conversation that accompany them. Fun and laughter is also IMPERATIVE, and I try not to complicate things with unnecessary drama. I am looking for a confident woman for friendship, travel, dinner, nights out and in, and hopefully at some point, that friendship can take off and evolve into something more. Until then, I will defer to the fun and intellectual stimulation we can create together.
I have many interests, and I am always looking for something new to learn. I am a humanist Atheist... If that bothers you now, not much reason to read further. Barring some cataclysmic event, that won't ever change. If one of the "6 things you can't live without" is an imaginary friend, we are not going to be even a distant match. Although life and knowledge is a relatively open canvas to me, non-theism and the reliance on information and science seems to be the most logical, least destructive way for humanity and the path to reason, understanding and eventual truth. Religion only brings death, indoctrination, rejection of new information and bigotry, along with superficial emotional solace for those that require it.
**** Update: Since this part of the profile isn't APPARENTLY clear enough, let me explain it more clearly: (Shit!!! Really??)
If you are even a non-serious religious person, but somewhere down the road you feel like a church wedding is in our future, that's ok by me. I don't hate churches, (churches are actually some of the most beautiful architecture on the planet) and contrary to legend I won't burst into flames (even with my Atheist shirt on... I've checked).
However, if this marriage requires me to perform a converting process to appease your dogma, your pastor, your church, your family members and your loosely followed faith doctrines, please don't waste our time. I'm not converting to be with you... It isn't NECESSARY in the "reality" world. Please know yourself before you plan on knowing me and attempting to undo something you don't possess the information or the history to undo. I can't stress this enough. If our future relationship hinges on your faith becoming my faith, then there are some very fucked up priorities at work... And they're not mine. Sorry. ;)
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Feel free to message and start a conversation. I don't bite, unless you want me to...
If you are a materialistic, entrepreneurial sheep, (meaning money and possessions are your primary focus in life) please don't message me. Your possessions mean nothing to me, and if my possessions are über important to you, then we won't be a good match. I know we all need money in our current society to survive and be, (I'm not unrealistic) but when it becomes the reason for your existence, I feel people lose the reason they work in the first place. They also lose empathy (if they ever possessed it), compassion for those not like them and it becomes a very ugly conversation you're not going to want to have with me. (Save yourself the pain... Seriously.) Pursuit of money for the sake of money, toys and "keeping up with the Jones'" isn't something I'm interested in. I am NOT materialistic (although I do like BR) and I feel that this country has far too many "me first" cookie cutter drones.
I am looking for an individual, out of the norm free thinker who isn't afraid to dance to their own song, and own it every step of the way. There are only a few people in life who's opinions truly matter... Why worry about the other people's opinions who choose not to own their own thoughts, beliefs and emotions? I always liked that saying, "Dance like no one's watching!" It most certainly describes me. Does it describe you? If so, please message me.