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visiblethought

51 / M / Straight / Single

Saint Louis, Missouri

His Details

Last Online
Jun 10
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm an insatiably curious person, curious about the experiences of other people, events, history, the world political scene. I am generally socially fearless, friendly and flexible in the ways that I communicate. I love to talk, explore ideas, argue, challenge and laugh with great frequency. I am unconventional in many ways. I am very adventurous and a risk taker in many situations but never at the expense of others. I believe in the imperative of kindness and generosity toward others regardless of their status in life. At the same time, I love sarcasm, humor and express myself with a "full palette."
What I’m doing with my life
I am recovering--if that is the word--from a marital separation so I am in untested waters. I am not ready to think about long term relationships, but I am interested in dating and I am always interested in friendships.

I am a healtcare consultant and have worked in hospital environments all of my career.

I am a dedicated fitnesss person and I work out 4-5 times a week.

I am trying to allow a sense of "duende" to awaken in my life, while reading Pema Chadron just in case...
I’m really good at
Listening, asking questions, finding out about things, crossing boundaries, being loyal, being a friend, thinking independently, having your back, keeping confidences, resonating with music (I come from a very musical family), dancing and crossword puzzles
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my friendliness, my voice, my energy, and that I will talk to just about anyone.
The six things I could never do without
Music, books, compassion, sexuality, my children, my friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
world political events, certain historical eras, myself (at least now), my friendships and my relationships with others
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 31–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals