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35 M Indianapolis, IN

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
• I'm just looking to make a genuine connection, nothing more specific than that. No pressure, see how it goes.
• If I message you, I'm interested. No games.
• I won't stop talking for no reason. If things aren't working for me, I'll tell you.
• If I make plans with you, I fully intend on showing up and having a lovely time.
• I don't care one tiny bit if you're taller than I and wearing heels and adding to any height discrepancy adds nothing to my worries.
• It doesn't have to be right away, but I do want to meet in person.
• I'm always me, the same online as in person, respectful at the very least.
What I’m doing with my life
...working on happiness
...trying to challenge myself more
...planning the castle I'd build if I won the lottery
...making an effort to eat better and move more
I’m really good at
...caring about others
...enduring management and organizing
...paying attention
...being trustworthy
The first things people usually notice about me
I would imagine it’s the visor and shades (my eyes are light-sensitive) or the scar on my neck (doctors have cut on me a bit). I've been complimented on my smile, so maybe that, as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I try to take most things in life on a case by case basis, and my interests are fairly broad. I don't have very many outright favorites of anything, but here are a few worth mentioning (in no particular order):

Where the Red Fern Grows
To Kill a Mockingbird
The Time Traveler's Wife
Tom Sawyer

Untamed Heart
The Wizard of Oz
500 Days of Summer
In Bruges
Le fabuleux destin d'Amélie Poulain (en français, même)
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Stand by Me

Game of Thrones
The Big Bang Theory
The Walking Dead
Mad About You
Star Trek: The Next Generation
The X Files
Party of Five

Also: sports, mainly MMA (the UFC mostly, but other promotions, too), football, and basketball.

Billie Myers
Axelle Red
Mylène Farmer
Maria Mena
Michael Jackson
Janet Jackson
Leona Lewis
Sophie B. Hawkins
The Tony Rich Project
Kina Grannis

Unfortunately, I'm very picky. It's not a conscious choice but I'm working on it. I'm trying smoothie concoctions in my blender to help add more nutritious foods (i.e. vegetables) to my diet. I'm a meat and potatoes dude, mostly, and pizza's good, too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about to make today better than yesterday, and hopefully not because yesterday sucked. much I'd have to pay for someone to clean my apartment for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
...either at Crackers Comedy Club (Downtown or Broad Ripple) or I'm sitting around at home wishing I had something better to do.

Assistance in this area would be greatly appreciated.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I rather enjoy being naked in my apartment when I'm by myself. I suppose it'd be nice with certain company, too, but let's not rush into things. ;)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if want someone to actually reply to you. I always respond, even if just to say, "Thanks, but no thanks."'re sick of this shit, too. won't randomly disappear. won't make plans if you have no intention of following through.
...I messaged you first. I will leave you alone forever if you tell me you're not interested. I won't ask you why, I won't plead my case, I won't argue with you.

I very much understand being lonely and sometimes feeling the need to settle for something as opposed to nothing, and even if you have no interest in me, please, PLEASE stop rewarding bad behavior. The more you allow it, the more acceptable it becomes, the more it will keep happening, the more bullshit you'll have to deal with, and then the harder it is for me to get noticed, too.