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35 M Indianapolis, IN

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:21am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm Brent and I'm just looking to make a genuine connection with someone (who will want to meet in person once we're both comfortable).

A little about me (in random order, numbered only for reference):
1) I'm nice, courteous, and respectful.
2) I'm an amateur standup comic who's working on getting on stage more often.
3) My "average" body type is not adjusted for the inflation of fat America, so I truly have an average build. I am working on an upgrade, though.
4) I'm a sports fan, especially MMA (UFC, etc.), football, and basketball. I've been a season ticket holder for the Indiana Fever since 2002.
5) I absolutely adore my nieces and little ones, even if they're not all so little anymore.
6) I really enjoy helping people.
7) I try not to have (m)any absolutes.
8) I'm open-minded--live and let live, love and let love.
9) I am creative and love to write. I value expression and uniqueness.
10) I detest litter. I usually pick up at least a piece or two almost every time I'm out walking.
11) I wash my hands ~119.627% of the time after using the toilet (sometimes I'll wash them more than once to ensure that they're clean)...other guys, ever disgustingly, not so much.
What I’m doing with my life
...working on happiness
...trying to challenge myself more
...planning the castle I'd build if I won the lottery
...making an effort to eat better and move more
I’m really good at
...caring about others
...enduring management and organizing
...paying attention
...being trustworthy
The first things people usually notice about me
I would imagine it’s the visor and shades (my peepers are light-sensitive) or the scar on my neck (doctors have cut on me a bit).

I've been complimented on my smile, so maybe that, as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I try to take most things in life on a case by case basis, and my interests are fairly broad. I don't have very many outright favorites of anything, but here are a few worth mentioning (in no particular order):

Where the Red Fern Grows To Kill a Mockingbird The Time Traveler's Wife Tom Sawyer

Untamed Heart The Wizard of Oz 50/50 500 Days of Summer In Bruges Big Powder Le fabuleux destin d'Amélie Poulain (en français, même) Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind Stand by Me

Game of Thrones The Big Bang Theory The Walking Dead Homeland The Americans Mad About You Star Trek: The Next Generation The X Files Party of Five

Also: sports, mainly MMA (the UFC mostly, but other promotions, too), football, and basketball.

Madonna Babyface Prince Billie Myers Axelle Red Mylène Farmer Eminem P!nk Maria Mena Michael Jackson Janet Jackson Lââm Leona Lewis Sophie B. Hawkins The Tony Rich Project Kina Grannis

Unfortunately, I'm very picky. It's not a conscious choice but I'm working on it. I'm trying smoothie concoctions in my blender to help add more nutritious foods (i.e. vegetables) to my diet. I'm a meat and potatoes dude, mostly, and pizza's good, too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about I can improve and how I can help make (at least) the world (around me) better.
...projects I'd like to do (writing, videos, stuff around the house, etc.).
...thresholds: when nothing becomes something, when something becomes something else, and when something turns into nothing. I'd really like to kick the inventors of CAPTCHA in the nuts (even if any of them are female).
...the nature of time, causality, and free will. If the past, present, and future all exist concurrently as physics seems to imply, how much control do we really have over our lives?
...the nature of our existence. Could we all be part of some advanced computer simulation made by more intelligent beings (God?)? What if the program just started right now...or now...or at some other arbitrary point and nothing we know existed before then, but our history/back story was just coded in like continuing a saved video game?
...why so many of you can't do without chapstick/lip balm (seriously, what's up with that?). much I want to quit online dating (but hoping it's because I found my gal and not out of frustration).
On a typical Friday night I am
...either at a Fever game or at Crackers Comedy Club (Downtown or Broad Ripple)...or I'm sitting around at home wishing I had something better to do.

Assistance in this area would be greatly appreciated.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if want someone to actually reply to you. I always respond, even if just to say, "Thanks, but no thanks." won't randomly disappear.
...I messaged you first. I will leave you alone forever if you tell me you're not interested. I won't ask you why, I won't argue with you.

Please do NOT message me if
…you are intolerant or closed minded. My loved ones cover a broad spectrum and span many colors, races, nationalities, religions, sexual preferences, and life philosophies, so we won't get along if you don't think that they deserve respect or basic rights.