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vivaciouslb

27 / F / gay / Single

Brooklyn, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am kind, curious, and restless.

My Self-Summary

I don't know what to say. To be honest I don't even know why I'm on here. I'm very close to deleting my profile. I can't lie. I broke up with my boy friend 7 months ago after being together 4 years. I have never really dated. I'm not over it yet. I'm looking forward to meeting new people, but I'm also scared. But one thing people say about me the most is that I'm brave and strong.

I'm very creative and i used to be very passionate. I'm trying to get that back in my life. I've been very submissive the past 4 years and I'm looking to claim my life back. i want to be in love with life again. I've been so transfixed with trying to love someone else I need to learn how to love myself and be passionate about my life.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a musician and a preschool teacher. I'm broke, but I'm content with being broke. I'm not stressed out about it. I accept my situation right now. I'm learning to live with who I am. I'm trying to be famous and successful. I'm coming to terms with what that means to me.

OH. ALSO. I JUST moved to NYC. So I'm also on here looking for people with ideas for cool things to do there and musical happenings etc etc. IM me if you think you know something i might be interested in.

I’m really good at

Analyzing situations, verbalizing my feelings, expressing myself through art.

The first things people usually notice about me

Short hair, loud mouth, big laugh.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: A tree grows in Brooklyn, Haruki Murakami, Allan Lightman, Nick Hornby. I need to read more. This list is pathetic.

Music: Regina Spektor, Feist, Cat Power, Etta James, Bessie Smith, Edith Piaf, The Beatles, Fiona Apple, Big band Jazz, Radiohead, Kings of Leon, Frans Ferdinand, Local music. That's just the tip of the ice burg.

Movies: Amelie(or anything with Audrey Tautou for that matter), Lord of the rings, When Harry met Sally, Eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind, or pretty much anything put out by Focus Features, they always make good movies. Except Be kind rewind. I really didn't like that movie.

Food: anything tasty but especially sweets. I have a severe candy addiction.

The six things I could never do without

Fan, Piano, Friends, Coffee, The Beatles, my cat.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Where i will be in 10 years and where I am now and how i got here. Also I catch myself thinking about how weird all people can be. i just find most people to be so strange,including myself.

On a typical Friday night I am

At a show dancing my ass off. Or in the middle of the night drinking cold coffee and perusing the internets.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am a really crazy person. You may think I'm not but just wait a min. I'll prove you wrong.

You should message me if

You want to have fun. Go for walks, make dinners, make desserts. Play some music.

If you are under 22 I will probably not message you back.