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64 M Henrico, VA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–70
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 19
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
UPDATED 10/15/14: FALL IS HERE; THE EVE OF ALL HALLOWS IS NEAR. Will you be "Tricked" or "Treated"? H'mmmm?

First, everything in my profile is true. I have supporting evidence where possible, including affidavits and character references where needed (ha-ha).. Second, my photo(s) are current (within 2 years). Third, I wish you fun and success in your search.

I am a native Virginian, originally from the SW mountains. I've lived in the Richmond area about half my life.

As a [Myers-Briggs] INTJ and an Aquarius I am a Scientific Philosopher, or a Crackpot, or just a Nerd depending on your definition. I'm pretty smart with a goofy sense of humor, a Liberal and a liberal (uppercase and lowercase). If you aren't at least open-minded, we're probably not going to hit it off very well.

I've had two good careers; three if you count being a Dad. I helped raise two wonderful boys, now grown with their own families. Now I'm trying my hand at Freelance Writing (that's what I call it, anyway).

I would like to find a lady to be a good friend and more; someone who takes care of her mind and body; who can be dignified and prim or lusty and uninhibited, to suit the situation and her muse. I don't need "Arm Candy"; I'm no "Sugar Daddy." Age is just a number. Ethnicity is just a color or location of birth. Intelligence, personality and desire are important.

I hope you enjoyed my self-essay. I hope you would like to know me better. If I have offended in any way, please accept my apology and know that it was not my intent.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm writing a bit, traveling a bit and loving life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
patience, teaching, listening and fixing things. My Mother gave me patience. Helping others learn is a natural joy. Being married taught me to listen Being a father taught me to fix things. It's a process.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told that, to some, I seem aloof, standoffish at first. I'm not - I'm just a little bit shy. I'm like a puppy in that respect - at first puppies are a little reluctant, then they won't stop licking your face...... I don't think that came out right.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Writers: I enjoy Uris, Vonnegut, LeGuin, Tolkein, Assimov, Crichton and my favorite, Robert Heinlein. Too many others to list.

Music: I enjoy almost everything except Gangsta' RAP (too much bass), or anything vulgar or degrading. My favorites are '50's-'60's Jazz, '70's-'80's Rock, and Classical - particularly Mozart, Sebelius, Rimsky-Korsakov and Ravel.

Movies: I like a good rom-com (what?): I loved "When Harry Met Sally", "You've Got Mail" and "The Ugly Truth". Of course, I enjoy action movies: any of the Marvel or DC Comics Superhero adaptations will do fine. The "LOTR" trilogy was phenomenal. I love many "old" classics, some of which I have in my collection - "Casablanca", "Dr. Zhivago", "2001" and a few others.

Food! Yes, please - anything. Have you ever seen "Bizarre Foods" with Andrew Zimmern? It's one of my favorite TV programs. Fortunately (or unfortunately), food loves me as much as I love it. Someone called this an "opportunivore". I like that word. NOTE: This does not mean I'm an uncontrollable pig. I'm very careful about my weight and try to make healthy choices.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, food, air, shelter, warmth and companionship. Everything else is just bells, whistles and "bling".

Some people may say that's trite, but I grew up pretty self-sufficient, playing in the mountains in SW Va. You learn to "travel light", if the need arises.

I would have added "sex" or "intimacy", but that would make seven, and some people view those as optional. I view them as part of companionship - with the the right person and circumstances, of course.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A. String theory: 9 dimensions or 11? I tend to believe 11, but I'm having trouble with naming the final 2.
B. "Membrane" theory: how many universes? Will this one keep expanding, or will it collapse? I want to go with a cyclical universe, but where's the necessary mass?
C. The real nature of time: or is it even real? Is it slowing down? How would we know? Are we just a hologram?
D. Recipes I'd like to try, especially from other countries.. I love to cook.
E. My Children and Grandchildren, needless to say.

Now The Truth: Sex! (Or physical intimacy, if you prefer) They say men have a sex related thought every 7 seconds. I think it's closer to 5... and at my age... tsk, tsk. It always seems to find its way in there, doesn't it? Forgive me, I'm only a man, but at least I'm honest. Physical intimacy enhances mental and emotional intimacy in a way that nothing else ever will.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I cheated - I read off someone else's paper. Please don't flunk me.

I really wasn't born in a tiny wooden house as part of a "litter". We came one at a time and were adopted out separately, thank you.
You should message me if
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you would like to meet an intelligent, articulate, affectionate and passionate renaissance man who can hold his own at a party, in the kitchen, at the shopping center or in the woods.