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vivavitavalerie

56 F Austin, TX

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 52–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:53am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have had a rich, fulfilling life. I finally made my way to NYC from Indiana to pursue a dream in the Arts. What a fantastic city! However, I bounced across the country to Los Angeles and met my husband, had two amazing children and after a few more bounces from coast to coast, ended up in Florida. After spending three years in Sri Lanka, teaching, I now begin a new chapter, without husband, but near my two dear children in Austin. I am excited and anxious to see what happens next!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am going to the opera, theatre, concerts and Austin points of interest. I still travel often. I plan to continue traveling and creating new memories. I also investigate opportunities to do meaningful work in the community.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
It would take a lot of silly sentences to say what I do successfully. I have had a lot of life experiences. I am a great Mother and have many skills in the Arts and Education. But, perhaps I should mention what I am not good at, such as technology.....ooh, I struggle with it because I have to! My son is an IT expert and says, "Figure it out yourself, Mom". I quess the artistic side of my brain is stronger than the logical side.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think people may notice my smile and sense my upbeat energy at first meeting. I love people - from all walks of life - and can be socially at ease within and in front of large groups of people. However, I love my alone time as well and do not have to have people around me in order to fill a sense of well-being.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh, my gosh, a I a 'foodie'. Along with a love of diverse people, goes my love of diverse foods....hence the desire to travel. I am an avid cook and enjoy entertaining my family and friends with great food, conversation, and sometimes entertainment. Shifting gears from my love of a 'movable feast', I enjoy reading immensely. Although I have a Kindle, there is nothing like holding a book in one's hands and being able to flip back and refresh one's memory of characters and dates mentioned earlier in a story. Still being a professional performer, I adore going to the Theatre and seeing movies. I try to keep growing and learning as I move forward in age.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could never do without my children, close friends, my personal integrity, a sense of adventure, a need to continue learning and giving, and the knowledge that there is not just a 'whole world' out there, but also a whole universe that is guided by a higher power.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend time thinking about whatever activity/adventure/project I am currently engaged in. I think about the near and interpersonal relationships of my close friends and family. On a larger scale, I involve myself with political issues on a local, national, and worldly scale, as well as how I can give of myself on a community level.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No Friday night is 'typical' for me. I am adaptable and flexible and liable to decide to fly to NYC to visit friends on next Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am not accustomed to 'dating'. I was married for 25 years and have not had a relationship since 2008 - so I am leery and it will take me some time to get comfortable with a new person.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you are honest, respectful, have strong moral fiber, have a passion for life, adventure, family, laughing, sharing and loving. I have a pretty good intuitive nature...please do not message me if you are a BS er. After being on this site for a few months, I can also say - please don not contact me if you have photos posted where you are shirtless, on a motorcycle, a selfie shot, or you are standing by a yacht or airplane. These seem to be contrived shots that are meant to attract someone other than me.