I'm post-op transgender. Successful and happy. Life is good and so many things are new and amazing. I have so much to learn.
So what am I looking for? Passion, Romance, and the thrill of it all. I want to look in your eyes and see the stars. I want to feel cherished, warm, and maybe a little protected. Not because I need to be, but just because I'm worth that much to you.
Will you take me out? Show me off? Let me embarrass you?
I tend to be submissive; so it wouldn't hurt if you were ok with being a little (lot) Dominant.
NOTE: I am not a whore or a one night stand, if you're not looking to get to know me don't bother writing. (That could change though depending on how nice you are...)
I am attracted not to ‘a man’ but to an ‘ideal’ man. There are certain qualities that I need you to have. Only the most basic are physical. For me that means you must be taller than me, and bigger; not fat, but more powerful. I want a man I can feel safe around. You should take care of yourself but not excessively. I want you to care enough to keep a good appearance, a healthy lifestyle, and a happy outlook. Having the jock who spends all his time in the gym is as bad as the man who spends all his time on the couch. You should have motivation and ambition. Success comes not from luck but from sweat. You do not need to be rich; success comes in many forms , but I am attracted to a man that knows how to work. I want you to be smart. Smart enough to talk to, smart enough to understand me, and generally driven to learn and grow throughout your entire life.
Most importantly I want a man who has that special spark, I want a dreamer who’s not afraid to leap for the stars. A dreamer dreams and follows his dream until another one takes it’s place. When I think of myself pursuing a relationship I find it much easier to see myself throwing my energy and talents behind a man in search of his dreams than doing it the other way round.
*Second note: I'm available because I have a woman in my life who means the world to me. We are married and have shared this road together for the last 11 years. She's seen me through my best and my worst and has stood by me throughout this transition. She's a part of this deal, so get over it; she's not going away. That being said We're not exactly looking for a 3-way thingy. No, I'm here because my sexuality remains more or less straight, even after transitioning, so I need to explore, and I have to find someone to fill that empty place in my life. Be cool, be open, and trust that it'll all work out, cause it will.