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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20-30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Nov 25
Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Has cats
English, Chinese
My self-summary
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Man is the most spontaneous animal. He can be risen to action with words from afar. Does it not strike you odd that we routinely deny ourselves of our natural curiosity? That we become predictable by practice.

Would you rather have a stranger kiss you on the first date or leave you with something to think about? Why not both?
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in sales and sometimes travel for it. Love traveling and it's definitely the coolest perk of my job. I've been to just shy of a dozen countries! That is, unless you count taking a train thru Belgium, then it's a clean 12.

When I'm not working I'm artsy fartsy with my cat or playing video games and trying to *be the very best, like no one ever was*.

Somehow, I've collected a handful of different bottles of whiskey.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...talking during the boring parts of a movie. Unless it's new episodes to our favorite show then no one's talking.

Also, I almost always wait out the hype on something before trying it out myself. It's like reverse hipster. I liked it... way after it was cool.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm probably being way too polite or aloof as a goof.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Giver, perks of being a wallflower, The Art of War, The Great Gatsby, Blink, The Fountainhead, Collection of Emily Dickinson, Oryx and Crake

Currently reading Blood Diamonds

Movies: Closer, Traffic, The Illusionist, Leon the Professional, Good Will Hunting, Blow, Old School, Ratatouille, London, His Girl Friday, Zoolander

TV: Mad Men, Eureka, Community, Hannibal, Bob's Burgers, Louie, Parks and Recreation, Attack on Titan

Music: Kanye West is the greatest artist of our lifetime.

Food: Loves anything that comes with a straw. If I could choose where we eat, it'd be Asian or American, likely. Some favorites are korean bbq, sushi, tacos, or a good slice of pizza.

Games: Smash, Persona 3 & 4, Dominion, Hearthstone, Heroes of the Storm, Borderlands. I like board games but no, Settlers is not my favorite. But I will play it because board game night is legit :D
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A much more fun way to do this category without talking about Maslow's hierarchy of needs (a lot of you think it's creative to include things like air or love)...

Six things I prefer:
my cat dusty,
my closest friends,
some bud,
good competition,
good music and art.

Six things I want:
my parent's wisdom,
a woman's grace,
someone to share meaningless secrets with,
a way to communicate with animals a la Wild Thornberrys,
let's throw in a Alladin's genie (rip we loved you),
and of course 100 million, fulfillion dollars to fulfill insane dreams.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
game design, entrepreneurship, hip hop, the English language, languages, art, poetry, colors, design - design in all facets, architecture, business, relationships, patterns, countries, charitable work, education, children, the world's future, the earth's future
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Painting and chilling with my cat or goofing off with my goons.
You should message me if
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“So, what do you go for in a girl?” he crows, lifting the lager to his lips. He gestures where his mate sits, then downs his glass. “He prefers tits. I prefer arse. What do you go for in a girl?” Well, um, I feel quite uncomfortable, the air left the room a long time ago, all eyes are on me. “If you must know, I like a girl who...reads. Yeah, reads. I’m not trying to call you a chauvinist, Because I know that you’re not alone in this, But I’d like a girl who reads. Who needs the written words and who uses the added vocabulary she gleans from novels and poetry to hold lively conversation in a range of social situations. I like a girl who reads, whose heart bleeds at the words of Graham Greene...or even Heat magazine. Who ties back her hair when she’s reading Jane Eyre and who goes cover-to-cover with each Waterstones 3-for-2 offer. But I want a girl who won’t stop there, I want a girl who reads, who feeds her addiction for fiction with unusual poems and plays that she hunts out in crooked bookshops for days and days and days. She’ll sit addicted at breakfast, soaking up the back of the cornflakes box and the info she gets from what she reads makes her a total fox. Because she’s interesting and she’s unique and her theories make me go weak at the knees. I want a girl who reads. A girl whose eyes will analyze the menu over dinner, who’ll use what she learns to kick my arse in arguments so she always ends the winner. But she’d still be sweet and she’d still be flirty, 'cause she loves the classics and they’re pretty dirty. And that means late at night she’ll always have me in a stupor, as we re‐enact the raunchy bits from the works of Jilly Cooper. See, some guys prefer arses, some prefer tits, and I am not saying that I don’t like those bits. But what’s more important, what supersedes is a girl with passion, wit and dreams. So I like a girl who reads.” -Mark Grist