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24 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:55pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Chinese

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My self-summary
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"Close your eyes and let the word paint a thousand pictures."

Thanks for stopping by! If you're a self described down to earth girl - good! I wasn't planning on leaving this planet to meet up with ya.

I love simple things such as fresh OJ, candid conversation, internet access, and a little bit of peace and quiet at the end of the day.

Some of my 1st world problems include: undoing my wrist buttons, my cat goes through too much litter, I don't want to cook right now, and there are a lot of screens in front of my face right now.

If there's one indicator that you are a writer, it is suffering from L'esprit de l'escalier. Symbolism and wit are terribly important to me and if you don't read, you probably don't write.

ENFJ for those who think it's anything more than astrology. I suppose I'm more introverted than not, but you know how it is.
What I’m doing with my life
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I live in the loop and work for my dad doing international business. I also graduated with a B.A. in game design and am producing my own game on the side.

I'm blessed I get to travel a lot! This year I've been to Delaware, Grand Caymans, New Orleans, and Vegas, along with a few cities in the Midwest.

In the summer of 2011 I taught English in Shanghai; I would totally teach again! I really love Asia and am passionate about education. I think international relations are dope and I want to take advantage of my knowledge and perspective of Eastern and Western cultures.

When I'm not designing games, deconstructing game systems, or being the best friend possible, I'm taking art and my love of hip hop more seriously.

If you are not trying to become the best at something, at anything, I don't know if we can get along. Self improvement has only one seed.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being there for you.

playing with cats, thinking logically and methodically, calculating time, doing a bit of mental math (nothing good by asian standards), storing useless caches of reddit and wikipedia knowledge, optimizing game systems, listening to and memorizing your stories, not touching the rice...
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm the only one not looking at his phone.

I have a candid laugh.

My cat acknowledges my sneezes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Giver, perks of being a wallflower, The Art of War, The Great Gatsby, Blink, The Fountainhead, Collection of Emily Dickinson

Currently reading The Cultural Impact of Kanye West and Eleven Rings

Movies: Closer, Traffic, The Illusionist, Leon the Professional, Good Will Hunting, Blow, Old School, Ratatouille, London, His Girl Friday

TV: GoT, Mad Men, Eureka, Community, Hannibal, Bob's Burgers, Louie, Parks and Recreation, Attack on Titan

Music: I used to listen to "alternative" and still have some band merch (funeral for a friend, tool, incubus). I'm into EDM but I'm mostly a HipHopHead. I've been grooving to jazz and soul music recently, as well.

The last 4 concerts I went to were Drake vs Lil Wayne, sets at Lolla of Run the Jewels, Childish Gambino, and Chance the Rapper, then the Yeezus tour with Kendrick Lamar opening for him, and way back Watch the Throne. I think live performance is the greatest form of entertainment and love plays/theater as well. I am always down for a recommendation.

Food: Loves anything that comes with a straw. Really wants to eat out, been cooking at home. I love Asian and American, mostly. I'll try anything twice.

Games: Smash, Persona 3 & 4, HoN, Dominion, Hearthstone
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
i am not religious but i do love my neighbor. how can we be so hostile when we are all people undertaking our own journeys?

life's boring without a challenge. what's the only thing worse than losing? not playing at all.

there are some people in the world who never doubt themselves, never question a thought, never double-take... really? i mean, even predeterminists look both ways before crossing the street.

what's life without the truth? can we be ourselves or do we have to wear masks? i'd rather speak from my heart than my ass, to save us some time and grace.

music moves you and makes you feel. it breaks language barriers and travels the world. like the gift of teaching, it is one of the few things in this world that keeps on giving.

all games -- board, video, or sports -- have rules and rituals. it, too, breaks language barriers and travels the world. to play with others is to share an experience.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Can people converse or is that limited to apps?

Colors and color combinations.

What will the world look like in the future and is r/futurology anywhere near accurate?

How can I play better and how are these games similar?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Painting and chilling with my cat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I would like to go on the ferris wheel with a sweet girl.

I used to blaze a lot in college. I still love pot culture, I just started getting side effects, so I stopped. I definitely don't mind if you smoke :)
You should message me if
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You still use your phone like a phone.

You like to cuddle and watch Netflix, TED, Twitch or just read in bed.

I enjoy the company of nerds and artists and anyone who employs the power of Google search.