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41 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 13
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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My two year old just asked "why are we here," and this was my answer: "to decrease the amount of suffering in the world, and to explore, and the best way to decrease suffering is to love people as hard as you can." He seemed to buy it. If that seems at all right to you, here's some more details:

I'm a political activist, mostly working on building better tools for democracy. I'm in a wonderful, amazing, incredible open marriage that blows my mind on a daily basis and we are having a blast raising a two year old. Between connections to a couple wonderful communities I'm basically swamped in the friends and love department. But I keep this profile up because I seem to have a basically insatiable need for connection and newness, and in part because I find writing stuff like this to be a pretty good check-in with who you are and where you're at. Great question, right? Can you even summarize yourself? If not, why not?

It's amazing how you can meet people and just click and there you are. I'm incredibly lucky to be in a position where I can act on my curiosity, and be in a city and community with so many other people who all busy acting on their curiosity too.

This was leftover from how okcupid used to work (describe yourself in three words), but I kinda liked it: I am intentional, insatiable, and insanely lucky.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Generally, I like things. I love music and dj a little and I love reading (always looking for a recommendation, especially fiction) and I try to get outside whenever I can. I've developed an every day yoga practice somehow (this still surprises me!) and run a couple times a week. I sailed and skied a fair amount as a kid so I still try to make those happen when I can. I'm a Giants fan and like catching the occasional game. And by catching I mean, watching - not filling in for the guy squatting behind home plate. That looks really damn hard.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Aw shucks, I grew up in Virginia and Lutheran. My people are not known for their ability to answer this question. I'm reasonably skilled at getting things done and having a nice time. I'll just have to leave it at that.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My searing intellect, chiseled good looks, rounded buttocks and emotional warmheartedness just kind of hit you all at once. I understand it's quite overwhelming.

Seriously though, the last person to notice me out of the blue said, "hi, mind if I objectify you a bit?" Make what you want of that!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've been reading a ton of nonfiction and economics, so I'm always looking for nonfiction recommendations. My top five movies are something like A Room With a View, The Mission, Until the End of the World, Almost Famous and, hm, maybe Short Bus. I listen to and play electronic stuff from all genres but diversity is the thing I love the most about music. I really am into everything. Foodwise I'm doing a fairly strict low-carb, lotsa veggies and grilled things type thing. I love food and cooking and I'm decent at it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coming soon!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything, including thinking about what I can do to stop thinking so damn much about stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking a nice dinner, drinking some nice wine, putting my kiddo to sleep and then having happy fun grownup time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm going to have to give this some more thought.
You should message me if
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...if you own a pair of running shoes (ok, and you use them I suppose) and you occasionally crack a book, I'll probably be into you. I was joking about this to my wife the other day but she says it's true, and maybe it is. I'm super appreciative, nice and fun... and this is crazy, so call me maybe?

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