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32 Ventura, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I think you'd agree its hard to judge yourself through your own eyes.

I'm usually described by my friends as thoughtful, generous and sweet. At least by the girls. I wouldnt let my guy friends describe me as sweet. Thats just embarassing.

I try to do my share to make sure chivalry isnt dead.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've graduated high school, university with a BS in comp sci (UCSD. Go Tritons!), and now I'm a drone for your run of the mill corporate slave master. On the plus side, it pays the bills and I actually have some coworkers that range from pretty cool to awesome.

In my spare time I'm usually trying to sucker some of my friends into going to tea station or pizza and chicken love letters / some place that serves ramen. Or movie night at my place.
I’m really good at
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being a computer nerd. take them apart, put them together, I play tech support for a lot of my friends.

I do a little origami whenever I'm inspired.

Apparently I'm also a great listener as my friends like to call me when they have something to vent about.

I'm pretty good at video games (starcraft, diablo, torchlight, halo series), but as of late I find games to be unfulfilling and so I'm trying to move on to bigger and better things. Maybe I'll actually get my passport and go travelling. Sounds like a good idea right?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shows I enjoy include the simpsons, futurama, family guy, american dad, harvey birdman attorney at law, that whole genre. I tried arrested development but I just couldnt get into it.

Most of the music I've bought in the past 6 years is from over seas.

And before you start reading, I dont understand japanese or korean, I just happen to enjoy the melody and rhythm.

korean music I'm into as of late: hyuna,, tablo, taeyang, 2ne1, and lexy.

japanese music I'm into : ayu, utada hikaru, hitomi yaida, m-flo, namie amuro. ayaka ♥.
In and out of this genre these days, trying to find something I like casually but not finding much these days. Also my days of paying $30 a cd are over.

every once in a while I will unexpectedly want to listen to a bunch of late 80s/early 90s music. something like "your love" by the outfield, maybe something by Don Henley or Journey (Steve Perry's Journey. Cough cough).

favorite foods : If you havent had flemings happy hour, you need to go. Just go. Its not more expensive than any other happy hour and its really good food.

I like okinomiyaki, ramen, oyakudon, yakisoba, bi bim bap, korean bbq, kim chi pancakes, hong kong style fried noodles, pot stickers, xiao long bao, lumpia, pho, prime rib, bbq ribs, steak, and in n out. shrimp lobster and crab are all out since I'm allergic to shell fish =(.

I'd make an honorable mention list for food but that would take too long.

Getting some board games in here too... some ticket to ride, king of Tokyo, shadows over Camelot, and also accepting suggestions if you have any.
The six things I could never do without
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I do not have a smart phone. I used to have a palm pre but looking at my data usage per month and the price I paid for it made me realize that every month I pay 1/3 a crappy car payment for something I barely used. So what did I do? I cancelled my data plan and bought a car. Pure "genius."

1) water. not trying to be obvious here, I will often turn down free soda for a bottle of water.
2) family and friends. I love them in spite of (or maybe because of?) their constant paranoia, nagging, insecurities, and politically incorrect view points. But I stand by them and they stand by me.
3) sleeping in. I try to get 9 hours of sleep a night.
4) my laptop. ever show up to a meeting at work with a laptop that has a glowing alien head on the back and a red backlit keyboard? Priceless. Despite the fact that its screams "I HAVE BAD TASTE!", its actually a nice laptop that does everything I want it to do.
5) procrastination.
6) see 5.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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you actually got to the bottom of this and werent totally bored. apparently I wrote a freaking essay up there.