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42 San Jose, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 6
5' 3" (1.60m)
Has kids
My self-summary
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Hi. Thanks for checking out my profile. I want to take a different approach to this. Instead of listing what I'm looking for in a guy/man, I will list all my short coming/flaws/negative stuff and see if anyone is willing to take a chance. Here goes.....

1) I have 3 children by 3 different men (no regrets for me)
2) I can be lazy at times
3) Sometimes, I can get upset by stupid drivers on the road
4) I can't swim

I think that is it. I can't think of anything else on the top of my head. I guess I should give you the positive list too.

1) If we are friends, we will always be friends and I will always be there for you
2) I can cook
3) I'm a Vegetarian (I guess this could be good or bad depend on how you look at it)
4) I'm an Ambivert (I guess this could also be a good or bad thing)
5) I like to do nice things for the person that I love/care about

I will end this list at 5 and if you want to learn more, just message me. Thanks.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a TRUE friend to someone, making people feel good about themselves, and helping others.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know. You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I don't read much and haven't read for a long time but I recently just finished the first book of 50 Shades of Grey. I'm not sure if I will read the second or third book in the trilogy. Now, I am reading 101 Things I learned in Law School. Just finished the second book in the 50 Shades trilogy (50 Shades Darker).

Movies: The Lord of the Rings series, all the Harry Porters, XMens, Back to the Future, does this categorizes me as a nerd? I also like The Princess Bride, The Pursuit of Happyness, Charlotte's Web, and many other movies, too many to list all of them.

Shows: Hot in Cleveland, Happily Divorce, The Nanny, you get the picture, I like comedy as far as TV show goes.

Music: It varies. You can ask me and I will tell you.

Food: Anything as long as it's Vegetarian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) God
2) My three sons
3) My families
4) My friends
5) My Bible
6) My vacation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I am ever going to find "the One."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I don't have my kids and don't have to work, you can find me at the gym or going out dancing/dinner/spending time with my friends.
You should message me if
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you find that we have common interests
you are able to hold a conversation, make people laugh
single/straight, no bisexual please/divorced, not just separated