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vlnrablityissxy

38 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:55pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A year and a half in the Northwest and I'm very much enjoying being here. I'm on a Hero's Journey of sorts. Doing life, career, approaching 40 and looking for a partner who is a great fit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working for a well known and respected national health care provider, I strive everyday to help our leaders and teams be their best. Inquiring, introspecting, ideating. Pondering the weather. Dabbling in Buddhism. Settling into my condo. Appreciating the PNW and the intentionality and consciousness that permeates Portland.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Motivating. Adventuring. Listening & communicating. Connecting. Simplifying. Honoring and respecting people and things as they are.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, that really depends on what you are paying attention to :) My eyes, energy, firm butt? Maybe my bad sense of humor?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I dig Co-ops. Farmer's markets. Making healthy home cooked meals and sampling ethnic dishes. Since I moved to Portland I've made the time to ferment and grow veggies. Yum!

I haven't read much outside the myriad of work emails lately, but favorites include Introduction to Vedanta, Jitterbug Perfume, Gabriel Garcia Marquez.

I'll also hunker down with an occasional Netflix series now and again.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Authentic connection
Purpose
The ocean
Active, healthy living
My glasses
Technology
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where will I be in five years and who will I be with.
Wants vs. needs.
Installing a floating shelf above my kitchen Island.
When I'll get to see my niece and nephews next.
How the surf is looking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Finishing up a full week and hoping to give you some small gestures of appreciation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I enjoy an occasional sappy movie.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Are you emotionally available and growth oriented, but don't feel the need to be perfect? Are you a good teammate, pursuing the right mix of having fun and being responsible?

If this resonates I look forward to hearing from you.

Namaste!