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56 Kendal, UK Woman


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  • Ages 45-58
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Last online
Aug 19
5' 7" (1.70m)
Post grad
Has kid(s)
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here is not the place to find out!!!Im not into self... Thatcher made me despise all that! Whatever is written here is just a little bit of me. I am actually, open, friendly, honest and communicative... I dont suffer fools gladly and love to laugh.I'm pretty well educated.. whatever that a MA for the little its worth... I'm more into life experience and all that goes with that.... but i hate maths!!! and Im slowly adding to this blurb as time filters by!I find too that travel makes me want to not be in one place all the time.. but so far travel is a pleasure not a permenance... I am driven by my self motivation... and don't rely on others to provide that for me....I would worry if that changed. Music is important to me and I carry it with me and collect it wherever i go, as I do books, paper, pens, writings and camera and others tell me... "the kitchen sink"... just in case!! Well one always needs a "foldable dish and cup set!!!"" ha ha... and I will probably have one somewhere!!!!

I am a little mad, obscure, and love music to bits!
What I’m doing with my life
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Doing all I can NOT to do what I'm doing!Trying desperately to opt out of the tedious bits of life too.Actually... that means finding another way to live without work that drives me nuts....Im into music a lot and go to loads of gigs etc... and am a seasoned festival goer.... T in the Park ......WOMAD etc but i'll fill in with a few smaller venues in between them no doubt...costs permitting as its all got a little to much like lining the pockets of promoters rather than the creative musicians themselves. I do a lot of camping.. even the wild sort... but has to be a place where one can have a fire ... need to cook and brew tea!!! ha..I love to travel and often go on a whim... a friend may say.. "How about going to...." and Im gone..I like sponteniaty... oh and I spell/type just as it comes out....usually incorrectly!!.. not that I cant spell, i just dont see the importance of perfectionism!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
well im still trying to be good at everything but accept that some things I will try to be good at and simply cant.... like math!!! ( i cant stand it)... but in saying that... i dont give in easily at all.. if ever!!!......however im a dam good counsellor, cook, camper and everyone tells me I can pack anything into the smallest space!.....

and that cooking subject... its a bit of an art form I guess.... when one can conjure up a delictable delight from what others may consider " fresh air"...I seem to be able to do that..both in and outdoors!!!!... I can do a mean "cooking" campfire too... that can turn into keeping everyone warm as toast later....

Oh... and picking out bands that make something of there quest to recognition!...

... and a pretty good negotiator.....should i be needed!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair... it use to change colour by itself I might add... on a monthly basis.. this month blond- now a little less frequent! But not quite yet reached the end of the rainbow yet !.... and i hope i never do in all respects!!!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love Mexican and Asian and any food thats not usually from here... "street food" is the best ( no not the burgers and hot dogs but the simplest delights you find in places like Turkey, Morroco, Asia etc.....) Im a veggie as i dont like eating things withg faces... actually i just dont like it. I read till i'm blind,fall asleep watching most films even though I've waited a liftime to see them...Triple Echo is fave film tho.... The Crucible........London to Brighton and anytheing Shane Meadows like... Dead Man Walking, Room for Romeo Brass... etc...Mike Leigh films( Nuts in May) and Ken Loach..( Cathy come Home) I do love the raw, honest reality of them.. which translates into lifes reality eventually ....currently loving world cinema... Incendies in particular, Maria full of Grace , Other Lives.. not a laugh a minite but like i said I like raw honesty!

and music.... my passion... i love anything EXCEPT and thats a big except... jazz!! aaggh! Festival time.. .. and im there!( i am willing however to be educated on that subject)

and... books... The Book Thief... The Reader....Behind the Scenes at the Museum, Revolutionary Road....Labrynith, The Boy in Striped Pjamas....Birdsong...We need to talk about Kevin..India... those just being a few of the past reads...the rest are ensconsed in my head..........the first from memory... Now we are Six!!!!these are the periphary.....

and well music again.... welll Ive been to see so many bands of all sorts of sounds.... lately........ Dreadzone ( I love them), Faithless, Crowded House, Paulo Nutini, Glasvegas, Bedoin Soundclash, The King Blues, Snow Patrol, Teddy Thompson, The Fray, Billy Idol ( what!), Goldfrapp,Toots and the Maytals, Jimmy Cliff, Razorlight , Damien Rice, Elbow, James Morrison, Ray Lamontagne, The Killers, Kings of Leon...twice!!!! just a few...!!!! ps I love reggae....and my current rave is Indian music.... wow!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
well in one..... the neccesities of life! Second attempt...TEA!!!!! music, ,space for ones self, time to be creative , freedom and festivals!... can I change this list on a daily basis?? all things I do change daily... apart from, Tea, Music........

Friday: Wine, music, food, freedom of thought and mind,tomorrow and R4!!! oh and tea later!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the hell I can make life about life and not about just living!!! ...I just spend a lot of time thinking about how on earth to get off the crazy hamster wheel! I guess I'll answer that one for myself... jump off!!!... yes but how????
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a gig!.. cooking... listening to an ever increasing musical mountain thats growing in my home...debating some obscure issue with an even more obscure friend...tasting wine..( well actually drinking it.. sounds more cultured the "tasting" bit!)... in a field by a fire with friends, ... so you see no Friday is like another for me
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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informing the world of this, negates my privacy.... thats my private thing!!!
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if you are ok with who you are!.......... I am!