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32 Auburn, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–37
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:17pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hmmm... child savant in arrested development, teetering on the border of idealism and cynicism?

I am an amateur fixer. I play watch movies, play games, read, listen to politics, study philosophy, all the while taking copious notes and diagrams. I didn't entirely know why I did it, but I think I need to prove to myself that problems can be fixed. I like taking abstracts and making the maleable. I have not yet found a way to get paid for this, but I'm looking.

I’m fascinated with the politics, philosophy, history, counterculture, pop/low-brow culture, alternative lifestyles, gender studies, and all types of fiction. I like discovering new subcultures and learning about them. I'm so into my movies/novels/comics/video games/stories-in-general that I usually know the biographical and business histories behind them.

There is a big difference between a geek who knows the content of the story and one who knows how the story was made. I'm usually both.

Also, I'd swear I was reincarnated from Gomez Addams if I thought reincarnation worked like that.
What I’m doing with my life
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I primarily aspire to writing comic books, but I like working in different mediums. I wrote a few short films in college and a novella. I'm always working on multiple things, but the ones that I'm most excited about are a psychological thriller based around the pharmaceutical industry and a sort of indie romantic comedy. I also have some web and multimedia projects I'm working on.

If you want to know more, just ask. I'm a pretty open book.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a honestly a pretty first class nerd. My comic book knowledge is second to none. I went to film school so TV and film is pretty well covered. I am a comedy nerd whose favorite podcasts are WTF, Fat Man on Batman, and Savage Lovecast.

But I like to think I'm pretty well-rounded. I make a lot of notes and jot down ideas. I'm always thinking of things in terms of stories, so I'm always researching little bits to know a little about a lot of things. I'm interested in politics, science, philosophy, law, anthropology, history (of course)... Everything kind of fills in the bigger picture, and I like finding unusual connections in disparate areas of thought.

Everyone has always said I'll be a great father because I relate well to children and animals. I just remember what that felt like to have a wandering mind, untethered by constant demands... or at least I used to. I should meditate more.

And honestly, I'm good boyfriend material; honest to a fault, loyal, generous, and affectionate. I never hit, rarely yell, and do more than my share of the chores. I'm not saying I'm right for everyone, but I have the important stuff down.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall. (Didn't mean to be, it just happened.)

I'm well-spoken. (Perhaps overly so.)

Talk to me for more than a few minutes and you'll find I know a little about a lot of things, but probably don't care about the things you might expect.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Zen & the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Frankenstein, Belgariad, Stranger in a Strange Land, Ecstasy Club, Invisible Man, the Tao Te Ching, Life Inc, Ishmael, A People's History of the United States, No. 44 The Mysterious Stranger, The Amazing Adventures of Cavalier and Klay

Fuck. If you're not across the board, you're not even on the board. Beck, Jurassic 5, Yoko Kanno, Gorillaz, Red Elvises, Mai Yamane, Cake, Everlast, Madeleine Peyroux, Asylum Street Spankers, Django Reinhardt, P-Funk, David Bowie, Paul Simon, Leonard Cohen, Eric Clapton, Blondie, Koop, Aimee Mann,Chuck Berry, Beethoven, Eric Satie, Cab Calloway, James Brown, Fugees, Beats Antique

The Tao of Steve, Six-String Samurai, Airplane, Star Trek 6, Equilibrium, History of the World Part I, Blazing Saddles, Wet Hot American Summer, Kamikaze Girls, Seven Samurai, Easy Rider, Dogma, Chasing Amy, Clerks, Superbad, Fight Club, Big Lebowski, Blade Runner, American History X, American Beauty, Amelie, (500) Days of Summer, Away We Go, Scott Pilgrim vs the World, Memento, Avengers

Cowboy Bebop, Venture Brothers, Star Trek (everything until Voyager), Northern Exposure, West Wing, Boston Legal, Doctor Who, Bored to Death, Dexter, Arrow, Buffy/Angel, Dollhouse, Jeremiah, Arrested Development, Cheers, Louie, Lucky Louie, The Practice, Mad About You, Rocky and Bullwinkle, Flight of the Conchords, Monty Python, Upright Citizens Brigade, The Walking Dead, Raising Hope, Game of Thrones

Internet Television
Red Letter Media, Nostalgia Critic, Angry Video Game Nerd, Table Top, Co-Optitude, Zero Punctuation, MovieBob, Cinema Sins, HISHE

Comics (I'm a huge comic junkie)
Invisibles (anything by Grant Morrison), The Maxx (anything by Sam Keith really), The Question, Sandman, Preacher, Empowered, Strangers in Paradise, Daredevil, Scud: The Disposable Assassin, Promethea, Cartoon History of the Universe, Marvels, Kingdom Come, Transmetropolitan, Swamp Thing, Tank Girl, Ghost in the Shell

Mel Brooks, Rod Serling, Steve Martin, Stan Lee, David E. Kelley, Peter David, Aaron Sorkin, the Dalai Lama, George Carlin, Gene Wilder...

WTF with Marc Maron, Fatman on Batman, Doug Loves Movies, Savage Love
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ummm... I think I've lived without all of those things, so I'm not sure it applies... unless you want me to get really literal about this.

A good woman, a nice place to live, and a little entertainment is all I'm really looking for.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Comic books. I'm not going to try to hide it, so please don't condescend. I've read brilliant novels and seen some most of the best movies from around the world, but I have comics just as good. Some of them even have superheroes.

Politics. The day after Obama bailed out the banks and people called him a Socialist. I declared myself a socialist and I defend that position. I'm also of the opinion most people don't know what that word means, so I try to start a discussion. That said, I get as sick of the whole thing as anyone.

Philosophy. This is an umbrella category if there ever was one. Morality, the idea of a meaningful existence, what is consciousness, the efficacy of faith, the concept of self-delusion, choice... It's just endless and unknowable, but the journey is worth it. I'm an agnostic, but don't mistake that for meaning I have no beliefs.

Alternative lifestyles. I'm all for everyone living as they want as long as they harm no one. Considering how messed up the world is, religions are, and most families as well, I don't think anyone has the right answer figured out. I want people to explore the road less traveled so they can come back and tell me about it. I like hearing about secret eccentricities or talking about sexual deviance. Normality disappoints me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No such thing as a typical Friday night. I'm mostly a homebody, but I like to seek out the unusual things going on around me. I think my favorite outings were a high school production of Twilight Zone and an Australian steampunk circus. Usually I'll go out to live music or standup comedy, but I'm not much for the bar and club scene. I like to be able to listen to the people I'm conversing with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not a typically aggressive guy. "Mild-mannered" would be an apt description. I'm a very controlled person who like a chaotic universe around him. As George Carlin put it, order for me, chaos for everyone else. This isn't to say I'm not passionate, but my passion is restrained and I tend to gravitate toward people with unrestrained passion.

Consequently, I'm very attracted to women who break the mold and challenge convention. I don't subscribe to typical gender roles and I appreciate a woman who defies expectations.
You should message me if
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Believe it or not, I actually want to make friends and get to know someone before having a relationship or sex... Ideally, I'd like to have both in one person.

Other than that, I appreciate a love of the unusual, as I was once the weird kid on the playground. Finding sophistication in the low brow, eager to explore unknown worlds, searching history for precious gems, questioning everything... These are things I value.

I grew up in a matriarchal household, so I prefer strong independent women. I like a woman who can hold her own: in conversation, arguments, relationship decisions. Relationships, like games, are best when the partner is a worthy challenge but also a dear friend.