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voilasaurus

27 / F / Straight / Single

Saint Louis, Missouri

Her Details

Last Online
May 13
Ethnicity
Asian, Black
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Libra
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
what all does the world have to offer? and what all do i have to offer the world? learning and living this.

Q&A: I've had guys ask me some interesting questions that I thought I'd just post here so I don't have to keep reanswering the same questions...

Q: What turns you off?
A: i'm turned off most by guys who try to be someone they aren't. and, i guess like most women would say, i'm turned off [by] dishonesty, manipulation, narcissism, and greed.

Q: Why don't you have a boyfriend?
A: why don't i have a b/f? that's a funny question. there are quite a few reasons. i move around a lot, and a lot of guys don't want long-distance relationships when i leave; bad timing doesn't help. i dated [a guy i was really into] earlier this year but had to move two months later for grad school. i'm also hesitant to start something that i suspect isn't going to go anywhere for whatever reason (that includes long-distance relationships). finally, i have spent a lot of my 20's being super busy with school and work (e.g. i worked three jobs earlier this year and last year, and i went to school), so i don't have time to go out and meet people (besides on public transit which isn't ideal). i'm trying to change that. i [actually] think being in grad school as a full-time student this year has helped that aspect. i feel like i have a social life now, but i'll be moving again after i graduate in june (back to st. louis... i'm in cali now, finishing up a masters program).

Q: What are you looking for?
A: i'm looking for something that's going to last.

Q: Does your name mean magical or something else?
A: no, it means "lively". see if you can guess what my name is based on that information...

Q: Where have you traveled?
A: i've only been to one other country outside the u.s.--canada. i visited banff in alberta, which was absolutely beautiful... right smack in the canadian rockies. i've traveled to and spent time in numerous u.s. locations: ar, ca, co, ct, d.c., il, ks, ma, mi, mn, mo, nc, nm, nv, ny, oh, pa, ri, tn... i think that's all of them. i plan to travel the rest of north america and the world in the future!
What I’m doing with my life
graduate school. work. music. ask me if you're curious.
I’m really good at
...being independent. i guess a lot of people view this as an "i don't need a man" attitude, coming from a female and all. i say, not really. it's more like i can live without depending on anyone (be it friends, family, etc.) if i have to, even though it is not necessarily a preference. i support myself and am pretty self-sufficient.

i'm good at making lemonade out of lemons. but honestly, i like lemons a lot too. they're satisfyingly tart and provide disinfectant qualities.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
MOVIES: Ghost World, 500 Days of Summer, Die Fetten Jahre sind vorbei, Good Dick, Gran Torino, Strange Days, Requiem for a Dream, Prime, Precious, American Beauty

TV: Strangers with Candy, Forensic Files, Breaking Bad

MUSIC: changes constantly... but as of lately, I've been listening to... Against Me!, Flyleaf, The Beautiful Mistake, J.S. Bach, Ravel, Taking Back Sunday, Finch, Courageous My Love, Tonight Alive, Paramore, Miles Davis, This Day Forward, Dave Brubeck, Mariah Carey, Glassjaw, The Get Up Kids, etc.
The six things I could never do without
love, hope, opportunity, empathy, thought, creativity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how can i make things better (for myself, others, the world, etc.)?

ideas, human nature, sociocultural phenomena, philosophy, creative endeavors and pursuits, exploring, learning, growing, experiencing, sharing, connecting
On a typical Friday night I am
last night (11/18), i worked on my resume and job applications. sounds fun, right? don't lie, you know it does. :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–34
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
i've never been one to make laundry lists of the "ideal man", but i've learned they can be quite helpful if used appropriately. so, perhaps message me if you're:

1) genuine
2) compassionate
3) humorous
4) respectful
5) honest
6) level-headed
7) logical, yet...
8) spontaneous
9) adventurous
10) ...and not afraid to try something new
11) ambitious, yet...
12) down-to-earth and laid-back
13) creative
14) a problem-solver
15) a thinker (and a feeler)

or, i guess, if you want to chat about anything you found interesting on my profile, feel free to message me. :)