I don't really go for the whole "masc" and "fem" stuff. I love dark beer, pizza, football, and working out, which I suppose are "masculine" traits. I've seen Wicked on Broadway, try to dress decent, and use my hands a lot when I talk. And I quote Mean Girls a lot. Basically I do what I want to and don't pay much attention to the labels. Guys don't usually figure out that I'm gay, girls always do. I'm not sure why but it's whatever.
If you don't have a picture of your face I don't want to talk to you. I'm not ashamed of my body, in fact it's quite likely that I'm more smitten with it than I should be, but I think it takes more confidence to put your entire self out there. I'm certainly not opposed to seeing your rippling pectorals but a face will win me over any day.