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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:02pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Mostly monogamous
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
^ click link to music to listen to while reading^ (if you like)
Frisky, goofy, intellectual, spiritual, i have a zeal that doesn't want limits and i look at the world in wonder
Nothing wrong with child-like, i put down childishness some time ago.
I'm successful in my spirit life. Intuition is my friend and I welcome the idea of sharing my beautiful world with someone who's got a complimentary emotional chemistry.
I'm a writer, artist, singer, chef, looking for a magical mama who's cool with my friends, delightful to the senses, has a life and wants the compliment of a gifted mind
to explore healing, laughter, discovery, and light.
it's been an extraordinary journey through pain and miracles, humiliation, and redemption.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
taking it on and leading with love instead of my elbows. i have a deep understanding of the why's of circumstance from walking through many fires.
hopefully i can find the right cadence to put writing/ performing at the forefront and spend the next years sharing what's so freely been given to my open eyes.
i'm self employed, looking to start a foods business and a not for profit, supplying soup retail w/ 1/2 production donated to local charitable organizations.

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, performing, entertaining, making people laugh,
barking, jumping, wagging. i'm very creative and love to improvise.
i'm really good at hiding my feelings, especially when i don't need to. I can be coaxed.
find any old "rabbit personality" eastern horoscope and there's a lot in there that's true
I'm a mimic. Some say a ventriloquist. I inhabit and share worlds of sound. I'm flocks of birds in the middle of winter. The cow you didn't know was standing 4 feet from you.
But it's Awe > Shock
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
(i'm just gonna use this space to wax anecdotal)
so this one time...
i'm 19, i'm totally hunky, ride a motorcycle, work on the small town fire dept, etc
and I'm at work, in miss cha cha famous person's kitchen (beautiful, brilliant, inordinately intellectual and way the fong out of what i think my league is), and i'm whistling this intricate and syncopated excerpt of Brahms.
"David, " her voice has a rare huskiness to it: "are you whistling Brahms in my kitchen?"
Thinking I'm in trouble and totally missing that her oven just went to "cleaning cycle," I trip over myself to explain that actually, i learned it from a YES album, which was the equivalent of a bucket of ice water thrown at her perineum (i reckon).
"God, I knew i hated you," she literally grumbled at me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
yeah, why not just ram them all into one category?
avid reader since adolescence. the beats, absurdists, critical thinking, biography, nature, self-help
david foster wallace, pynchon, miller, bukowski, fuentes, fo, shange, hooks, mailer, beckett, erlich
not seeing a lot of movies these days, same with shows although Troilus and Cressida is coming to APT this summer and i would LOVE to catch that.
Butthole Surfers, Melt Banana, Bungle, most throat singing shows, avant or experimental shows in town. Gang of Four, indigenous music, prog-rock, pixies, pygmies, mariachis, meredith monk, malachi favors, mingus, masada. prefer smaller venue gigs and abhor people who talk throughout others' performances. I can probably not ever listen to Nick Cave again. :(
singing in NYC recently, a berliner (not a donut) said i was like a "hippy-blixa" :)
I'm not really motivated to do the food scene w/o a friend/date sort of thing. i have worked at many madison restaurants and many in the sf area and napa valley.
i eat at home. my roommates have it good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
bass (mmmm, that's delicious bass!)
music (no need for earphones, ii's always music in here)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
way more than i need to.
where the next steps of my journey take me.
potential, flow. the harmony of the artistic gift.
behavioral conditionality
what would jonathon winters do?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not too concerned that it's friday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i got my first "ink" last year.
i woke from anesthesia and my doc informed me that he put a tattoo on my colon.
"that's awesome, doc! now i'm like an inside out Henry Rollins!"
-he didn't know who HR is, though
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you like adventure and you're part of it rather than a spectator. you have a voice that's found or finding. you've distilled some truth out of the confusion.
if you're given to jealousy. thanks but no. i have through time (and the interwebs) been able to reconnect with a lot of dear friends and old lovers. most are married and raising kids, there's just a really good bond there. i visit who i can when i travel and i have great boundaries and don't fool around.
Just this week (6/06), 2 dear friends from my past found me. One cooks for a billionaire, quite literally, and informs me that by being in touch with my dreams, I'm farther ahead of the game than i might realize. The other is a lady I haven't caught up with for 25 years: "It's amazing and an 'of course' moment that you sing Mongolian, 'cause that's where i live now."

oh, i can't watch a lot of TV, especially reality shows. I was raised in front of the TV and became all of my heroes. I do adore serials, though (i want someone to watch cheese with!/ Six feet, Sopranos, Breaking bad... got tired of walking Dead after a few seasons)

I took the personality test and don't recall right now how i scored.
i do know that i'm an IDFD, which means I Don't Fuckin' Drink.
even when i lived for years in Napa Valley i only drank tequilla and shit beer, and i still refuse to be taken out by conformity. 3:)

the years in the midwest have curtailed my "manly skills" (read: dampened my slut), but there's a balance, i reckon.
the loneliness is unbearable at times and yet, i've conjured some pretty groovy knowledge out of thin air.
I have HSV-2 and have had two 3-year relationships and never given it to a partner. I take meds prophylaxis. Taking better care of my health overall

i'm at FB as db pedersen, youtube, etc