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51 Madison, WI Man


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  • Ages 35–55
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Yesterday – 3:20pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Happy New Year/ Rabbit Rabbit!
Time to update
Just got through xmas and thank gawd; it was a mellow one. Not my holiday.
This year has seen the completion of 3 original scores for locally produced theater. Performance, pre-recording, ADR, and Foley. Time for a break.
I have numerous irons in the fire with music, performance, and movement arts.
The last question in the profile stopped me in my tracks: How do you feel about documentaries?
I love them. But am flummoxed: someone shot a documentary about me 8 years ago and never completed it. I JUST got that project handed to me, but how do you edit a documentary about yourself without going completely bananas-Mc-Malcovich?
We'll see.
Charisma: not lacking there. Hooking up skills: No bueno. Tsk tsk, guapo.
I write about horror and grace in the same sentences.
I work in food from fine dining to short order, I clean houses, I work in the recovery community and want to reapply my skills vis a vis nutrition in AODA care.
I'm a transplant from the SF area where I was constantly running back and forth between EMS and great kitchens, not really looking for accolades in either field. I've been here 18 years and love it still.
My vedic astrologer (hey, somebody gifted it to me) assured me that I'm in a 19 year cycle of Saturn.
Most people get a year or 3, but Saturn's very generous to me.
I can tell you about how Rumi kicked me in the solar plexus and it made me an artist.
Over the years, though, loneliness and self doubt have had their tussles, but optimism is indefatigable (woah, I spelled that right on the first try).
The “curvy” in body type is going towards fit. I work out regularly, eat well and take care of my head.

My best friend is 2. We've been chattering away since he was in his mama's belly.
Oh, and my teeth are shitty. I mean my oral health is much improved, but I'm a few years out from the implants I'll have to eventually get. (Did you make it this far only to get to that deal breaker).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
advancing my performance interface, I have yet to tour, at least solo. lots of collaborations are in the offing. they're quite fun!
My approach to performance is like skydiving backwards.
I have four books that i'm determined to write: Love; Death; Suicide; and Alcoholism.
Sounds fun, huh? I actually wrote Love a little by accident 4 years ago. I have to edit and set it free.
My topics are heavy because I've always augured the witch energy from the earth and stars. I just happen to have been given one of the translators.
I think "feminism" is a worn out trope, at least for guys to wield.
I think everybody is on the same field/ team.
this model comes with an outtie.
More than half of my life was spent in the stagnation of chemical defenestration. There's just work to do and life to love, now.
I'd like to be the opposite of a troll and teach that skill.
I'm sure i'll be on the mats by springtime. Many friends who are teachers.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, performing, entertaining, making people laugh,
barking, jumping, wagging. i'm very creative and love to improvise.
i'm really good at hiding my feelings, especially when i don't need to. I can be coaxed.
find any old "rabbit personality" eastern horoscope and there's a lot in there that's true
I'm a mimic. Some say a ventriloquist. I inhabit and share worlds of sound. I'm flocks of birds in the middle of winter. The cow you didn't know was standing 4 feet from you.
But it's Awe > Shock
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
(i'm just gonna use this space to wax anecdotal)
so this one time...
i'm 19, i'm totally hunky, ride a motorcycle, work on the small town fire dept, etc
and I'm at work, in miss cha cha famous person's kitchen (beautiful, brilliant, inordinately intellectual and way the fong out of what i think my league is), and i'm whistling this intricate and syncopated excerpt of Brahms.
"David, " her voice has a rare huskiness to it: "are you whistling Brahms in my kitchen?"
Thinking I'm in trouble and totally missing that her oven just went to "cleaning cycle," I trip over myself to explain that actually, i learned it from a YES album, which was the equivalent of a bucket of ice water thrown at her perineum (i reckon).
"God, I knew i hated you," she literally grumbled at me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
yeah, why not just ram them all into one category?
avid reader since adolescence. the beats, absurdists, critical thinking, biography, nature, self-help
david foster wallace, pynchon, miller, bukowski, fuentes, fo, shange, hooks, mailer, beckett, erlich
not seeing a lot of movies these days, same with shows although Troilus and Cressida is coming to APT this summer and i would LOVE to catch that.
Butthole Surfers, Melt Banana, Bungle, most throat singing shows, avant or experimental shows in town. Gang of Four, indigenous music, prog-rock, pixies, pygmies, mariachis, meredith monk, malachi favors, mingus, masada. prefer smaller venue gigs and abhor people who talk throughout others' performances. I can probably not ever listen to Nick Cave again. :(
singing in NYC recently, a berliner (not a donut) said i was like a "hippy-blixa" :)
I'm not really motivated to do the food scene w/o a friend/date sort of thing. i have worked at many madison restaurants and many in the sf area and napa valley.
i eat at home. my roommates have it good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
bass (mmmm, that's delicious bass!)
music (no need for earphones, ii's always music in here)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
way more than i need to.
where the next steps of my journey take me.
potential, flow. the harmony of the artistic gift.
behavioral conditionality
what would jonathon winters do?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not too concerned that it's friday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that i'm in danger of being vanilla
You should message me if
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you like adventure and you're part of it rather than a spectator. you have a voice that's found or finding. you've distilled some truth out of the confusion.
if you're given to jealousy. thanks but no. i have through time (and the interwebs) been able to reconnect with a lot of dear friends and old lovers. most are married and raising kids, there's just a really good bond there. i visit who i can when i travel and i have great boundaries and don't fool around.
oh, i can't watch a lot of TV, especially reality shows. I was raised in front of the TV and became all of my heroes. I do adore serials, though.

the years in the midwest have curtailed my "manly skills" (read: dampened my slut), but there's a balance, i reckon.
the loneliness is unbearable at times and yet, i've conjured some pretty groovy knowledge out of thin air.
I have HSV-2 and have had two 3-year relationships and never given it to a partner.

i'm at FB as db pedersen, youtube, etc

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