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voxcantoris

50 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 18
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French, Latin, German, Ancient Greek

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My self-summary
Musician, librarian, curator, Anglican priest.

Reading that over, I sound like a character in a Robertson Davies novel or a Merchant Ivory film. But that would miss the post-punk keyboardist, theater in college part of the story. And it would miss the existential car crashes all (or almost all) grownups have on their record. And the hard-won hope.

Not at all comfortable with this sort of forum, but recently on the other side of a marriage, and although it probably is true that a great many people on this site are here to get over someone, I'm actually not. I'm here to keep living my curious life. Which means meeting new people. Well, all people are new every day. I mean, people new to me.
What I’m doing with my life
My life and I don't always get along, and he's often off exploring cathedral archives in Europe while I work in the library and shop at Whole Foods. Sometimes we meet up and get coffee together. Occasionally we sing.
I’m really good at
Reading neumes, exegesis sacred and profane, holing up, snarking, worrying about whether I went too far in snarking, and fearing God.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books : A Warning to the Curious, The Sot-Weed Factor, The Once and Future King
Movies : Magnolia, Time Bandits, Withnail and I
Shows : The Sopranos, Breaking Bad, South Park
Music : Anything Scott Miller has done, Krzysztof Penderecki, William Byrd, Current 93 (et familia), post-punk in general
Food : Italian, Greek, sushi, pretentious and expensive French food
The six things I could never do without
Music, fine editions of Victorian/Edwardian supernatural fiction, beer, the book Shakespeare used to pray with, stimulants, Netflix. I could handle the Fight Club last scene end of civilization, if it weren't for the fact that it means the end of Netflix.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Getting bills paid, the cure of souls, musical integrity, archival order, and what exactly is up with this.
On a typical Friday night I am
Reading my uncanny dinner companions.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're as willing to arduously step out of your comfort zone as I am of mine. You are tolerant, wry, kind, and take it as a principle that people are fallen and profoundly broken but also infinitely lovable. You think that Britannia rules the waves.

Least important: you have opinions about MR James or Current 93...and they aren't necessarily mine.