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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22-45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:49am
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Ancient Greek, Ancient Greek, Ancient Greek
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a broad ranging intersectional feminist geek. I cook, I code, I knit, I design games, I paint things, I grow little trees in my window, pretty much if you can immerse yourself in a subject, I'm at least a little bit interested in it. I just survived my first full winter as a daily cyclist here in Madison.

" And when things get tough, this is what you should do.
Make good art.
I'm serious. Husband runs off with a politician? Make good art. Leg crushed and then eaten by mutated boa constrictor? Make good art. IRS on your trail? Make good art. Cat exploded? Make good art. Somebody on the Internet thinks what you do is stupid or evil or it's all been done before? Make good art. Probably things will work out somehow, and eventually time will take the sting away, but that doesn't matter. Do what only you do best. Make good art.
Make it on the good days too."
-Neil Gaiman
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working as a lab tech, exploring Madison, fixing my bike, and adding to my books and board games collection.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, problem solving, painting little plastic figures, winning and losing games, hugs/cuddles.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
+ video games, RPGs, and BoardGames

The Moon is a Harsh Mistress Robert Heinlein
The Chronicles of Amber Rodger Zelazny
The Dresden Files Jim Butcher
Blood and Iron Elizabeth Bear
The VorKosigan Saga Lois Bujold McMasters
The Earthsea Trilogy Ursula LeGuin
The Name of the Wind trilogy Patrick Rothuss
The Laundry Novels Charlie Stross
Snow Crash and Cryptonomicron Neal Stephenson
Geekomancy Michael Underwood
Libromancer Jim Hines
The Foreigner Series CJ Cherryh
Neverwhere Neil Gaiman
Diskworld Series Terry Pratchett (much better than Douglas Adams)
Two Knotty Boys series...

Back to the Future
Blade Runner
Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure
Lost Boys
Hudson Hawk
The Avengers
Startrek (The new one, and most of the original 6)
the RDJ Sherlock Holmes
The Errol Flynn Robinhood
Conan the Destroyer
Scott Pilgrim
Thor 2. It traded about a quarter of Thor 1's pretty for plot. <3
Ghost Busters

West Wing
Babylon 5 (Even the 5th season)
The new Dr Who (I'm a fan, i have a few tee shirts, but it isn't you know, my life.)
Agent Carter
Criminal Minds (The creepiest show to cuddle to...)

Tori Amos
Bare Naked Ladies
The Poxie Boggards
Nico Vega
Lady Gaga
Sarah McLachlan
Fiona Apple
KT Tunstall

Stove Popped Popcorn
Chex Mix
A medium Rare Cowboy Cut Ribeye
Pizza with Black Olives, Pepperoni, and Bacon
A good salad with romano and carrots and cheese and crutons and a little bit of ranch dressing.
Five Guys Hamburger and Fries
Midori Sour on ice with a diet coke topper. (it is the creepiest looking drink, one of my favorite visual effect cocktails after Spanish Style Irish Coffee.)

Video Games
Bravely Default
Escape Velocity Nova
Dungeons of the Necromancer's Domain
Baldur's Gate
Zork 1-3
Civilization 4
Master of Orion 1-3
King's Quest 6
The Secret of Monkey Island
Mine Craft

Dungeons and Dragons (all editions including 4.0 and Pathfinder)
Don't Rest Your Head
Amber Diceless
Apocalypse World
Mouse Guard
Mongoose Traveller

Board Games
Betrayal at the House on the Hill
Settlers of Catan (I promise if you don't like it not to make you play it)
I'll play anything once, and have a fair portion of all the games:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Diet Coke
My Laptop/Tablet
My RPG collection
My Bike
My Bag of Holding.
A good IDE/Game Prototyping kit
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now I'm on a boardgame design kick, working on the mechanics of a 4x game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making dinner and decompressing from my work week. Listening to podcasts. I'd love to have a regular Friday night game again.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are poly or poly friendly. I'm in an open relationship with a wonderful woman.
You enjoy cycling and long talks on the beach (beach optional)
You like board games and rpgs.
You aren't a grammatical prescriptivist.