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41 • Chicago, IL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–46
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 9:01pm
- 6' 2" (1.88m)
- Body Type
- Doesn’t want kids
- Has cats
- English (Fluently)
(Random women on OkCupid have e-mailed me to tell me that I shouldn't wear make-up. Please understand that I'm not going to reply to those messages. I like my look. It makes me feel like me).
I always have a book on me. I'm always reading. I'm usually reading fiction, but that's not a hard rule. There are no hard rules w/ literature.
I'm a sucker for sad. I thought Joan Didion's Play It As It Lays was as beautiful as it was devastating. I relate to Raymond Carver stories more than I want to. Murakami conveys isolation like no one else. Faulkner is a genius w/ words, but he'd suck if he was on Twitter.
I'm a big fan of horror. I like thrillers. I enjoy a good drama.
All My Circuits.
I'm a music dork. I used to host a radio show. I used to edit an online music magazine. If you talk to me about music, my eyes widen and I start to babble. I won't do that here.
I like a lot of different genres. Depending on my mood, I'll be listening to Ambient Dub, Art Pop, Deathrock, Goth, Hip-Hop, IDM, Indie, Industrial, Minimal Techno, Pop, Rock, Shoegaze, Synth, or whatever else I'm feeling.
I remember the first time I ever heard Warm Leatherette by The Normal. It changed the way I listened to music.
I go to live shows all the time.
Here are some favorites from the last year or so:
Chris & Cosey
Lana Del Ray
I'm not much of an epicure, but I do like French Fries and Tater Tots.
To drink, I enjoy a $10 bottle of red wine, b/c I'm fucking posh.
The feel of warm water when I wash my hands.
My cat, Familyyr.
The place between dream and wakefulness.
I was a bit of a club-kid back in the day and my 40-year old bones still enjoy a night of dancing. The beat goes on...
... You want to go to a show. I could always use another concert buddy.
... You want to share your HBO GO password.
I don't have a concrete answer to the question, "What are you looking for?" I'm on OkCupid to chat w/ interesting people. I don't have an end-game. When I meet someone new, I like to let a connection evolve organically. Let's talk, let's drink, let's laugh, let's see what happens.
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