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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 28
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I went to school for art, which means that I work in the service industry. I have a 10-7(ish) gig in The Loop. My job not my life-goal, but it is my career, and I do enjoy it, and that is important me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm wearing eyeliner, most likely.

(Random women on OkCupid have e-mailed me to tell me that I shouldn't wear make-up. Please understand that I'm not going to reply to those messages. I like my look. It makes me feel like me).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

I always have a book on me. I'm always reading.

I thought Joan Didion's Play It As It Lays was as beautiful as it was devastating.

The Sound And The Fury was the best book I've ever read. Can I go on OkCupid and admit that I love Faulkner w/out sounding pretentious? I didn't read him to be pretentious. I read him b/c I really liked his use of words. Faulkner was a genius. Although he'd suck if he was ever on Twitter.

I'm a big fan of horror. I like thrillers. I enjoy a good drama.

Also: Wet Hot American Summer for the laughs.

Deadwood was my favorite show of all time.

Everyone on OkCupid likes Archer, right? I do too.

I'm a music dork. I used to host a radio show. I used to edit an online music magazine. If you talk to me about music, my eyes widen and I start to babble. I won't do that here.

I like a lot of different genres. Depending on my mood, I'll be listening to Art Pop, Deathrock, Goth, Hip-Hop, IDM, Indie, Industrial, Minimal Techno, Pop, Rock, Shoegaze, Synth, or whatever else I'm feeling.

I remember the first time I ever heard Warm Leatherette by The Normal. It changed the way I listened to music.

I go to live shows all the time.
Here are some favorites from the last year or so:
Spencer Krug
Mazzy Star
Chris & Cosey
Lana Del Ray
Gazelle Twin
FKA Twigs
Earl Sweatshirt

I saw Circuit des Yeux perform at Reckless Records recently and I thought that she was amazing.

I'm not much of an epicure, but I do like French Fries and Tater Tots.

To drink, I enjoy a $10 bottle of red wine, b/c I'm fucking posh.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The feel of warm water when I wash my hands.
My cat, Familyyr.
The place between dream and wakefulness.
My liver.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm hanging out w/ friends, or writing, or at a show, or at a gallery, or reading, or rocking a karaoke mic.

I was a bit of a club-kid back in the day and my 40-year old bones still enjoy a night of dancing. The beat goes on...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I write as a hobby and I sometimes use your profiles as character studies for my writing.

I don't have a concrete answer to the question, "What are you looking for?" I'm on OkCupid to chat w/ interesting people. I don't have an end-game. When I meet someone new, I like to let a connection evolve organically. Let's talk, let's drink, let's laugh, let's see what happens.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... You want to get together for a drink and a laugh.

...You want to go to a show. I could always use another concert buddy.

... You want to talk books or music.

... You want to share your HBO GO password.