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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-24
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

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Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
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Special Diet
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
English (Fluently), Arabic (Fluently), German, Spanish, French
My self-summary
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I mostly try to avoid taking the world too seriously, in spite of its sometimes desperate attempts to make me do so. I mean, c'mon, famine...? Is that REALLY necessary? Just let it go, world.

I have much better face-showing pics, ask away. It's just that I'm extremely sexy and I want someone who likes me for my personality.

I'm also (when I'm not too busy being impulsively fun and drop-dead-sexy) a pragmatic philosopher, lover of animals and nature, and bit of a policy wonk.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What am I doing with my life? Enjoying it, because... what else would one do?

Professionally... Navy -> intel analyst -> program manager -> consultant. Am I trying to save the world/US? It's DC, is there another option?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Basketball, problem solving, running, being a commando, going commando, diy carpentry and car mechanicing, making up/verbing words, playing Scrabble/Balderdash/Words with Friends, trailing off mid-senten
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Too often: "you look really intense". I'm often lost in thought and my default look apparently isn't... umm... happy-go-lucky. I believe the technical term is "resting bitch face", unless there's another cutesy name for it for guys. Which is funny, because I'm totally light-hearted and have an easy smile. People who know me find the contrast funny. Unfortunately, everyone else is apparently afraid of me, so they never find out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I mean... what's left to talk about if we do all this?? I listen to NPR, I read lots of news and foreign affairs stuff, I watch sarcastic/ironic shows, and I like dark comedies and epic action films.

Eats: This one seems relevant... so... Cheese. Mexican. Thai. Italian. Almost every single dessert in existence. Good bread. Candy corn. Sushi (but almost no other seafood). Brunch (duh). And everything else. I'm far from picky.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Athletic/physical outlet
The series of interconnected tubes leading to wikipedia
Nature & animals (I will pet any dog, anywhere... try me)
Long walks on the... never mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Political economy... the perfect jump shot... whether free will is just an invention of our fevered little imaginations... donuts... relative vs. objective (?) morality...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Let's go see comedy! Live band?! Corner the market on a jukebox somewhere? Drink and dance at a rowdy club. Dinner and a never-ending sequence of drinks with great conversation. A great makeout session.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've crashed a semi (twice) and been shot at by the US Army (just once). Actually, those are less private and more teasers of REALLY awesome, slightly weird stories.

Ok, potentially embarrassing, if I cared about normative judge-y-ness, is that Zima was one of my favorite drinks in college (who am I kidding, I'd still drink it), and I have several playlists built around Taylor Swift, P!nk, and Ke$ha.
You should message me if
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You like fun.

You're healthy, fit, curious, and a free-thinking sort.

Please feel free to ignore any particular age thing it says I'm interested in, I like to play with the filters and see what okc shows me. I'm interested in qualities, not quantities (age).