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38 Arlington, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Arabic (Fluently), German, Spanish, French

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My self-summary
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I'm playful and only occasionally to be taken seriously... I'm passionate about being fun, funny, slightly absurd, and indulging my impulses.

I have actual face-showing pics, just ask. It's just that I'm extremely sexy and I don't want to only attract shallow people... I want someone who likes me for my personality.

I'm also (when I'm not too busy being impulsively fun and drop-dead-sexy) an intellectual, bit of a nerd, obsessive about the Oxford comma, a lover of animals and nature, and a major policy wonk.
What I’m doing with my life
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Professionally... Navy - > intel -> program manager. Am I trying to save the world/US? Well, duh, b/c DC.

Personally... I love the outdoors, animals, sports, and spontaneous, impulsive fun of pretty much any kind.

OKC-ishly... I'm in an open relationship. Not looking for a threesome, just interested in thoughtful, interesting, unconventional, sexy/sex-positive women with a passion for life... long talks, nice dates, some quality makeout...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Basketball, problem solving, running, being a commando, going commando, diy carpentry and car mechanicing, making up/verbing words, playing Scrabble/Balderdash/Words with Friends, trailing off mid-senten
The first things people usually notice about me
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Too often: "you look really intense". I'm often lost in thought and my default look apparently isn't... umm... happy-go-lucky. Which is funny, because I'm totally light-hearted and have an easy smile. People who know me find the contrast funny. Unfortunately, everyone else is apparently afraid of me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I mean... what's left to talk about if we do all this?? I listen to NPR, I read lots of news and foreign affairs stuff, I watch sarcastic/ironic shows, and I like dark comedies and epic action films.

Eats: This one seems relevant... so... Cheese. Mexican. Thai. Italian. Almost every single dessert in existence. Good bread. Candy corn. Sushi (but almost no other seafood). Brunch (duh). And everything else. I'm far from picky.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Athletic/physical outlet
The series of interconnected tubes leading to wikipedia
Nature & animals (I will pet any dog, anywhere... try me)
Uhhh... alcohol?
Long walks on the beach
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Political economy... the perfect jump shot... whether free will is just an invention of our fevered little imaginations... donuts... relative vs. objective (?) morality...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Let's go see comedy! Live band?! Corner the market on a jukebox somewhere? Drink and dance at a rowdy club. Dinner and a never-ending sequence of drinks with great conversation. A great makeout session.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've crashed a semi (twice) and been shot at by the US Army (just once). Actually, those are less private and more teases.

Ok, potentially embarrassing, if I cared about normative judge-y-ness, is that Zima was and still is one of my favorite drinks, and I have several playlists built around Taylor Swift, P!nk, and/or Ke$ha.
You should message me if
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... you're interested in: cozy chats about work and life, wide-ranging intellectual discussions, outdoor adventuring, playing sports, board-game nights, personal pub crawls, live music, comedy shows, dancing, cuddling, and really good sex.