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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–82
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 11
Relationship Type
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Working on Post grad
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I tend to be open and genuinely put myself out there in a honest and authentic way. I decided to attempt to do that in print because it's how I am in person. I'm looking for an authentic, fulfilling and longterm relationship so I only put content that tries to describe me accurately. Anyhow, take a look and if you would like to chat or learn more let me know. Worst case is if there isn't chemistry, we could be awesome friends right! OK … here goes ...

I'm looking for:
I know it sounds cliche' - Im looking for my best friend and lover.
Someone I just love to spend time with that wants true emotional and physical intimacy.
Emotionally available to each other - No avoidant types please!
Have a deep conversation one moment and be able to joke and laugh the next.
Someone who wants to connect, express, empathize and seek to understand.
Laughter, trust, intimacy and care for each other should be at the center of what we have.
Two of my female friends read this and said it was right on except "you focus on others all the time and need to take care of you more." … well I guess thats something Im working on and learning, but I genuinely love caring for others. I hope you do to because, I figure if you both articulate your needs and then focus on caring for each other it's all good in the end right:)
I want someone I can talk to about anything …. you know, the type of relationship where you find yourself asking "where did the time go".
I love to joke and have a great time… yet, depth, empathy and my desire to really understand and communicate are at my core…. I regularly hear "I never realized someone like you really existed".
I put a fair amount in my description in order to screen out and hopefully find the right match - If your curious let me know!

I'm looking for someone who will value a man who doesn't play games, is authentic, heart-felt, intuitive and analytical with a strength and concern for others. I'm sensitive and deep but grew up in a boxing, martial arts and motorcycles world…I ended up working in non-profit helping children and families heal and become stronger. Now Im in the business world, but still focus on impacting and helping people.

Deep and meaningful relationships are important, however, I'll do just about anything for a good laugh! Man, do I have some stories!
I deeply love my kids ... They ARE my centering, a pure Joy in my life, and an extension of my soul! We are a close and happy family. We do art, go on adventures and play a lot…I'm truly happy here!
I have flaws, just like everyone else ... But I'm aware and honest about them and I'm always trying to grow and be a better man!

Loving, gentle, aware and honest with your emotions.
Attraction and chemistry are a important but Im looking for internal beauty and character at the foundation.
Being able to laugh, just enjoy life and have fun together should be a core of the relationship. But, I want depth too, I want us to love each other in a true and authentic way....And above all someone who will work at growing through the good and the tough times!
Share your feelings and want intimate connections, not a living companion.
I hope YOU are Heartfelt and empathetic rather than critical
Want a best friend and lover (through thick and thin)
Empathetic - Judgmental and Critical need not apply!
Love giving and supporting as much as receiving.
Able to coexist with spontaneous, imaginative and adventurous ...its just how Im wired.
Passionate and a love of touch it’s a plus

A few quick things about me -
Addicted to white mocha drinks
I'm really curious about people - beyond surface stuff
I've bare boat sailed and traveled to a lot of GREAT countries
I'm a creative and artist at heart - painting, playing in bands etc.
I love to learn so I've worked in non-profit, retail, biomedical, Military, IT, Agriculture and owned my own businesses.
I'll play a round of golf...but I'm not a "sports guy".
I'll go for a motorcycle ride along the river..but I'm not a "biker".
I’m affectionate and passionate but, I'm not "driven by my sexuality".
I love the lakes and the outdoors ..... but, Im not a "hunter"(sorry, I don't have a bunch of animals I've killed mounted in my bedroom ;)
I'm not hyper fashion focused...but, I don't mow the grass in my shorts and black socks or have a pick up truck on jacks in the driveway

My Meyers-Briggs is INFP if you know what that means…if not its interesting reading:)I am honest ....but, I ALWAYS try to be gentle and you should be too, or at least working on it.
Spirituality and Values are core to me, however, I'm not a "self righteous vigilante", no "bible thumpin", just trying to do and LIVE my faith..!
Im financially stable but care little about money and give because I know how hard it can be out there.
I'm weak enough to need my friends and strong enough to admit it!

While I work hard to build and maintain relationships I'm not real aggressive on this site... so if I spark your interest let me know.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Understanding and helping others - Its at my core
My Children - Being the love and strength my children need
Having Fun - Laughing a ton at stupid stuff …. often myself :)
Boondoggles - Getting lost, Exploring, learning and growing
Family - Laundry, sweeping, buying groceries, fixing "owies"
Music - I used to play in bands so just started writing again
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
"Being there" and really listening
Making people laugh
Painting my little girls toenails
Music and arts
Slicing a golf ball
Making people happy:)

Wanting to be a good man in everything I do...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Smile, sincere, genuine, strong
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Great book on attachment styles … do you know yours?
Books: Attached (great book about attachment styles) - The wonder of girls - Everyones normal till you get to know them - The hidden messages in water - Love languages (do you know yours?)
music: from 89Current to KQRS & tastes range from Classical, blues, Rockabilly, Funk, instrumental etc - played in blues and top 40 bands in another life
Foods …. Italian, French, American, Greek, Asian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Children, Friends and family
Arts and live Music
Love and compassion
My 68 Camaro Convertible and Motorcycle
Jokes, laughter,
Love, Intimacy, touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- How to continue to keep my kids convinced Im a SPY
- "what is this in my hand" and "how did it got there" …. if you have kids you know what I mean!!
- How to support and love my children.
- what makes people life long compatible
- My latest business venture
.... oh and creating plans for my next boondoggle!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Live Music and dancing
Watching kids movies weekends
Painting or writing music
Glass of wine, music, fireplace
Fun places to eat
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The most private thing I'm willing to share would be a message to the woman who is missing in my life ...I wonder if your reading this….
"I know you are out there somewhere! I'm not needy...but I really need YOU my love - wherever you are....I hope to find you soon, but if not ... Ill keep looking and waiting until I find you"

….I know, I know it sounds a bit corny, but its sincere.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Kind - empathetic - have depth - want to know more
Im very approachable but not real aggressive on this site..just not my style…interested?...let me know:)