I'm looking for:
I know it sounds cliche' - Im looking for my best friend and lover.
Someone I just love to spend time with that wants true emotional and physical intimacy.
Emotionally available to each other - No avoidant types please!
Have a deep conversation one moment and be able to joke and laugh the next.
Someone who wants to connect, express, empathize and seek to understand.
Laughter, trust, intimacy and care for each other should be at the center of what we have.
Two of my female friends read this and said it was right on except "you focus on others all the time and need to take care of you more." … well I guess thats something Im working on and learning, but I genuinely love caring for others. I hope you do to because, I figure if you both articulate your needs and then focus on caring for each other it's all good in the end right:)
I want someone I can talk to about anything …. you know, the type of relationship where you find yourself asking "where did the time go".
I love to joke and have a great time… yet, depth, empathy and my desire to really understand and communicate are at my core…. I regularly hear "I never realized someone like you really existed".
I put a fair amount in my description in order to screen out and hopefully find the right match - If your curious let me know!
I'm looking for someone who will value a man who doesn't play games, is authentic, heart-felt, intuitive and analytical with a strength and concern for others. I'm sensitive and deep but grew up in a boxing, martial arts and motorcycles world…I ended up working in non-profit helping children and families heal and become stronger. Now Im in the business world, but still focus on impacting and helping people.
Deep and meaningful relationships are important, however, I'll do just about anything for a good laugh! Man, do I have some stories!
I deeply love my kids ... They ARE my centering, a pure Joy in my life, and an extension of my soul! We are a close and happy family. We do art, go on adventures and play a lot…I'm truly happy here!
I have flaws, just like everyone else ... But I'm aware and honest about them and I'm always trying to grow and be a better man!
Loving, gentle, aware and honest with your emotions.
Attraction and chemistry are a important but Im looking for internal beauty and character at the foundation.
Being able to laugh, just enjoy life and have fun together should be a core of the relationship. But, I want depth too, I want us to love each other in a true and authentic way....And above all someone who will work at growing through the good and the tough times!
Share your feelings and want intimate connections, not a living companion.
I hope YOU are Heartfelt and empathetic rather than critical
Want a best friend and lover (through thick and thin)
Empathetic - Judgmental and Critical need not apply!
Love giving and supporting as much as receiving.
Able to coexist with spontaneous, imaginative and adventurous ...its just how Im wired.
Passionate and a love of touch it’s a plus
A few quick things about me -
Addicted to white mocha drinks
I'm really curious about people - beyond surface stuff
I've bare boat sailed and traveled to a lot of GREAT countries
I'm a creative and artist at heart - painting, playing in bands etc.
I love to learn so I've worked in non-profit, retail, biomedical, Military, IT, Agriculture and owned my own businesses.
I'll play a round of golf...but I'm not a "sports guy".
I'll go for a motorcycle ride along the river..but I'm not a "biker".
I’m affectionate and passionate but, I'm not "driven by my sexuality".
I love the lakes and the outdoors ..... but, Im not a "hunter"(sorry, I don't have a bunch of animals I've killed mounted in my bedroom ;)
I'm not hyper fashion focused...but, I don't mow the grass in my shorts and black socks or have a pick up truck on jacks in the driveway
My Meyers-Briggs is INFP if you know what that means…if not its interesting reading:)I am honest ....but, I ALWAYS try to be gentle and you should be too, or at least working on it.
Spirituality and Values are core to me, however, I'm not a "self righteous vigilante", no "bible thumpin", just trying to do and LIVE my faith..!
Im financially stable but care little about money and give because I know how hard it can be out there.
I'm weak enough to need my friends and strong enough to admit it!
While I work hard to build and maintain relationships I'm not real aggressive on this site... so if I spark your interest let me know.