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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Wants kids
Has cats
My self-summary
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I'm a good person.
Proud of the work I do, even when it's far from perfect
Great with kids
Passionate about film and music
Tired of being on OKC (aren't we all?)

So, why am I 42 and still single? Luck. Bad, bad luck. Seriously. I don't enjoy this.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Teacher, wedding videographer, film critic (on radio and in print), filmmaker.

I just got a cat, so I'm trying to be good at looking after a jumpy, rambunctious motor mouth.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making short films, getting out of my comfort zone (hence the skydiving picture), using my time wisely, self-awareness, taking things in stride without being a pushover, working with kids, cracking wise, writing, speaking in public, recommending a movie for just about any situation.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I bear no resemblance to Don Cheadle?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
In order to keep this short and concise (not easy for a professional), I'm going to narrow this down to films that have had an impact on my life in one way or another:
Brazil, E.T., Stop Making Sense, Tree of Life, Joe Versus the Volcano, American Movie, Star Wars.

Books: Just finished the Jim Henson biography. Currently reading Furious Cool, a Richard Pryor bio. Contact by Carl Sagan; A Confederacy of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole; Killing Bono by Neil McCormick; Into the Wild by John Krakauer; Harry Potter series; Andy Kaufman Revealed by Bob Zmuda. Life Itself by Roger Ebert.

TV: Modern Family, Arrested Development, Louie, Freaks and Geeks, Orange Is the New Black, Game of Thrones, Mad Men, Daily Show, Colbert, House of Cards, The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt, Breaking Bad, South Park, Monty Python, It's Always Sunny...

Music: Arcade Fire, U2, The Frames (and Swell Season), Neko Case, Black Rebel Motorcycle Club, Talking Heads/David Byrne, St. Vincent, Beck, The xx, Leonard Cohen, The National, The Feelies, The Beatles, Radiohead, Wilco. That song Gonzo sings in The Muppet Movie.

Food: Glogg slushies at Simon's is my new reason to live. Red velvet pancakes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"Everything is better with beer and monkeys."
--Maya Angelou

Okay, but really (in no particular order)...
Movies (it's my passion and we all need one of those)
My job (I love it that much)
My friends and family (kind of a no-brainer)
Hopes and dreams (stagnant is boring)
Traveling (see "hopes and dreams")
A nearby city (I'd freak out if I lived in the middle of nowhere)
"Zoo Station"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Collapsing after a long week of dealing with other people's children. But I will go out if provoked.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a weakness for the "Step Up" movies. I do not apologize for it.
You should message me if
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You really are serious about starting something new and aren't "set in your ways." That seems to be a tall order these days for people in my age group.

And if I write you, please don't write back if you have no interest in meeting. I don't like too much email back-and-forth. We're not getting any younger, so why waste so much time typing what we can just as easily say to one another?