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23 F London, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:38am
Middle Eastern
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Turkish

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My self-summary
education sector worker, neuroscientist, queer, disco dancer, anxious body, sad femme-inist, subtle goth, sentimental commie, listless introvert, weird gURL/gIRL

Hate "fun", but like fun in that bedroom dancing, tarot cards, eating food, evenings in spent rewatching LGBT coming of age movies, whispering in the dark at sleepovers, reading down the phone to the one u rly love, night strolls and dancing to queer and girl friendly pop under a disco ball till my knees go creaky - kind of way

Nonbinary queers and not just "girls".
What I’m doing with my life
Education sector(special educational needs) and Neuroscience (training and working in labs.)

Hanging out with my sister.

(starting masters in september)

I eat hippies. You have been warned. (This is because they are full of lentils and green tea but are also oxygen thieves. That makes one favour for me, one favour for the planet))
I’m really good at
patience, affective empathy, honesty/oversharing, social awkwardness, making themed playlists, talking on the phone, texting back... the essentials.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know.

(On the London Underground I am that girl restlessly pacing up and down both ends of the platform whilst everyone is standing still.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like it when people read books/stories out loud to each other. This bit is quite long. Sorry.

I think my favourite novel is Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides. I felt pretty low when I finished it because it was all over...

Other reading material: federici, bell hooks, the will to knowledge, lies journal, butler, nina power, jean rhys, maggie nelson, woolf, story of the eye, marquez, chris kraus, marie calloway, junot diaz, murakami, james baldwin, zora neale hurston, raymond carver, anais nin, flaubert, wuthering heights, le grand meaulnes. I'd really love good LGBT book recommendations.

music: bill callahan, my bloody valentine, yo la tengo, slowdive, shabazz palaces, atlas sound, ramona lisa, chairlift, beat happening, fennesz, frankie cosmos, pale saints, asobi seksu, maria minerva, john maus, rihanna, sisters of mercy, clan of xymox, frankie rose, madonna, beyoncé, swans, Arthur Russell, pet shop boys, solange, tlc

films: Celine Sciamma, Agnes Varda, Chantal Akerman (je tu il elle), David lynch, truffaut, rohmer, weerasethakul (esp Tropical Malady but Uncle Boonmee is also pretty sick), Daiseas, kieslowski, haneke, wong kar wai, mike leigh, terrence malick, wim wenders, love like poison, in the city of sylvia, suddenly (2002), belle de jour, me you and everyone we know, but I'm a cheerleader, clueless, heathers, ginger snaps, virgin suicides, pretty in pink...
guilty pleasures: dish and the spoon (made me, the runaways (have soft spot for history of riot grrl and lesbian themes)

television: ultimate favourite and obsession - My So Called Life. Buffy, orange is the new black, twin peaks, freaks and geeks

food: I like pretty much all of it. I like all cuisines. My favs include: mexican, middle eastern, Mediterranean, french
The six things I could never do without
solidarity, honesty, good feminists, nonbullshit togetherness, nice books, nice music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"what the fuck is wrong with me", education, dualisms, bodies, ableism, intersectionality, freaks, femininity, queer, communism, utopia, performance, performativity, brains, empathy, anhedonia, socioeconomic origins of mental illness (very vaguely lol), mental health, disease, oversharing, narcissism, "sex", intimacy, gender expression, social anxiety, the autistic spectrum, "pretty", sapphism, tomboy-femmes, why I struggle to be concise, whoever I have a crush on at the time
On a typical Friday night I am

or disco dancing in velvet at a queer club night
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm romantic

I'm unintimidating. Actually I can be described as "nice".

Extremely(?) introverted meaning talkative and open in person but shit at small talk and sort of quiet in groups. I dislike crowds but I *deal* with it. I also don't go out every single week. I need quite a few weekends to recharge by myself. So if u dig space that's def something I can do. Yay.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You have emotional depth.

You enjoy platonic friendships with women as well as the sexual/romantic/sexual-romantic kind.

"weird sad girl twitter" means something to you...and if it does, you probably think I am sort of bordering on uncool for mentioning it on here.

pls don't if you use the term "alternative" or "alternative lifestyles" uncritically. Ain't got time for that

Don't message me if you are SWERF or TERF, ***def*** ain't got time for that. Seriously mate, sort ur fuckin self out.

If you pride yourself on being a grammar/spelling pedant, be gone.

If you think I am too harsh, don't bother.

If you call yourself "sex-critical" feminist, we'll probably get on pretty well.

If you are interested in mental health issues as well as far left politics, it would be real nice to chat.

If you have an embarrassingly adolescent fixation with indie music/films and lonely girl lit or women's writers in general (in addition to being into far left politics) then you seem like you could be really fun and I probably need you in my life. If you look like Rihanna or (CURRENT) Dakota Fanning as well as all of that...then...*cries*

Don't be shy...might have a bad case of the k stews but I ain't mean