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  • Ages 22–30
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White, Other
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Turkish
My self-summary
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scientist, disco dancer, anxious body, sad femme-inist, subtle goth, sentimental commie, listless hard worker, weird gURL/gIRL

Hate "fun", but like fun in that bedroom dancing, tarot cards, eating food (basically live for Turkish breakfast), evenings in spent rewatching LGBT coming of age movies, whispering in the dark at sleepovers, reading down the phone to the one u rly love, night strolls and dancing to queer and girl friendly pop under a disco ball till my knees go creaky - kind of way

Currently based in SE London...

~ no "sapiosexuals" ~
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
(Neuroscience) Laboratory Lyfe: my MSc project is on the effect of chronic stress on hippocampal microglia in the context of depression pathogenesis. scientists hmu

reading and writing things

listening to a lot of boring indie music

hanging out with my sister
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
patience, affective empathy, honesty/oversharing, social awkwardness, making themed playlists, giving eye contact when listening (but not when I'm the one talking), talking on the phone, texting back... the essentials.

(also slicing brains and according to my bestie: "alienating people")
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like it when people read books/stories out loud to each other. This bit is quite long. Sorry.

Reading material: federici, bell hooks, the will to knowledge, lies journal, butler, nina power, jean rhys, maggie nelson, woolf, story of the eye, middlesex, marquez, chris kraus, marie calloway, junot diaz, murakami, james baldwin, zora neale hurston, raymond carver, anais nin, flaubert, wuthering heights, le grand meaulnes. I'd really love good LGBT book recommendations.

music: bill callahan, my bloody valentine, yo la tengo, slowdive, shabazz palaces, fka twigs, atlas sound, grouper, dirty beaches, dean blunt, william basinski, TOPS, fear of men, lotus plaza, ramona lisa, chairlift, beat happening, fennesz, frankie cosmos, pale saints, asobi seksu, maria minerva, john maus, rihanna, sisters of mercy, clan of xymox, frankie rose, madonna, beyoncé, swans, Arthur Russell, pet shop boys, solange, tlc

films: Celine Sciamma, Agnes Varda, Chantal Akerman (je tu il elle), David lynch, truffaut, rohmer, weerasethakul (esp Tropical Malady but Uncle Boonmee is also pretty sick), Daiseas, kieslowski, haneke, wong kar wai, mike leigh, terrence malick, wim wenders, love like poison, in the city of sylvia, suddenly (2002), belle de jour, me you and everyone we know, but I'm a cheerleader, clueless, heathers, ginger snaps, virgin suicides, pretty in pink...
guilty pleasures: dish and the spoon (made me, the runaways (have soft spot for history of riot grrl and lesbian themes)

television: ultimate favourite and obsession - My So Called Life. Also Transparent, Buffy, orange is the new black, twin peaks, freaks and geeks also The L Word tbh. And Sugar Rush.

food: I like pretty much all of it. I like all cuisines. My favs include: mexican, middle eastern, Mediterranean, french...also Silk Road.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
solidarity, honesty, good feminists, nonbullshit togetherness, nice books, nice music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"what the fuck is wrong with me", education, dualisms, bodies, ableism, intersectionality, white supremacy/racism, freaks, femininity, queer, communism, utopia, performance, performativity, brains, adult hippocampal neurogenesis, the HPA axis, empathy, anxiety, anhedonia, socioeconomic origins of mental illness, stress, mental health, the way the state treats illness and disease as an "economic burden", oversharing, narcissism, "sex", intimacy, gender expression, social anxiety, the autism spectrum, "pretty", sapphism, tomboy-femmes, why I struggle to be concise, whomever I have a crush on at the time
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm unintimidating. I can be described as "nice".

People often paint pictures of me and I never even ask them to. Make you think.

Most importantly I hate dating...

I often find cishet men painfully every way imaginable.
You should message me if
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You're not a member of the ruling classes.

Shout out to combabes whose parents speak English as a second language...

(Want to meet more BME commie queer feminists in London. I'm Turkish so am an ethnic minority)

If you're a dude and you only have male writers listed in your books list then I will not message you back. Sorry not sorry etc.

If you wanna hang out in a tentative, friend/nondate kinda way hmu

If you find it weird to go on a "first date" with someone you've never met before and think "fuck that can we just hang out or whatever" then hmu

If you fancy me you'll have to convince me to date you IRL...not on here kthanxbyexxxx