Now onto the actual profile information:
I moved down to oly initially (now I just moved to Tacoma) cause I thought that people north of tacoma were far too pretentious for me. I'm a bit of a snob sometimes, but my god people!!! It's as if being politically correct and acting like your shit doesn't stink is is a religeon up there.....personally that's a bit too faithless and self involved for me. I tend to be traditional, and not, all at the same time. I am a walking oxymoron..... just like my screen name says. I am femminine, but not girly. I believe in respect. I think that people deserve common decency and earn the form of respect that they present themselves worthy of. Until someone gives me reason to believe they deserve less or more I treat everyone the exact same way.
I have 2 children....boys....they are amazing. I have a husband. He knows I'm poly.
I love to dance in the rain, well dance in the first place. I love to sing loudly in my car by myself. I have become less negative over the past few years or so, and try to surround myself with the healthier things in life. This is still a work in progress, as are many self enhancing and life enhancing traits I wish to acquire. I am always growing and learning. This is a core element to who I am fundamentally and I believe life is an adventure that is meant to be experienced in as many ways as possible. I used to skate but do to a series of unfortunate events it is in my best interest that don't. Anything else please ask more. I am as honest as they come.
I am finally at a point where it has become necessary in my mind to finish my BA. I have transferred to a four year unniversity so I can obtain a bachelors degree and join the ranks of everyone I grew up with and knew. LOL. Sorry, dry humor. I am almost done with my BA at this point.
I am vivacious, thoughtful, and intelligent.
I identify as gender fluid/queer but I am biologically female and love being in a woman's body.
Just a side note, I am a bigger girl. Please do not get it in your head that I am not. If you don't like bigger girls there is no need to write to me. I'm not interested in disappointing or decieving anyone. There are too many flakes and fakes in the world of internet. I am a thicker girl and that IS what I am, so no sense in bullshitting about it.