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walking_oxymoron

30 F Tacoma, WA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:01am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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NOTE: What is with young guys and thinking that 30 makes me a cougar? According to my husband I'm an ocelot.... A baby cougar. NO I WILL not fulfill your cougar/milf fantasies! Move along idiots.... (Maybe that was kind of bitchy but I'm annoyed)

Now onto the actual profile information:

I moved down to oly initially (now I just moved to Tacoma) cause I thought that people north of tacoma were far too pretentious for me. I'm a bit of a snob sometimes, but my god people!!! It's as if being politically correct and acting like your shit doesn't stink is is a religeon up there.....personally that's a bit too faithless and self involved for me. I tend to be traditional, and not, all at the same time. I am a walking oxymoron..... just like my screen name says. I am femminine, but not girly. I believe in respect. I think that people deserve common decency and earn the form of respect that they present themselves worthy of. Until someone gives me reason to believe they deserve less or more I treat everyone the exact same way.

I have 2 children....boys....they are amazing. I have a husband. He knows I'm poly.

I love to dance in the rain, well dance in the first place. I love to sing loudly in my car by myself. I have become less negative over the past few years or so, and try to surround myself with the healthier things in life. This is still a work in progress, as are many self enhancing and life enhancing traits I wish to acquire. I am always growing and learning. This is a core element to who I am fundamentally and I believe life is an adventure that is meant to be experienced in as many ways as possible. I used to skate but do to a series of unfortunate events it is in my best interest that don't. Anything else please ask more. I am as honest as they come.

I am finally at a point where it has become necessary in my mind to finish my BA. I have transferred to a four year unniversity so I can obtain a bachelors degree and join the ranks of everyone I grew up with and knew. LOL. Sorry, dry humor. I am almost done with my BA at this point.

I am vivacious, thoughtful, and intelligent.

I identify as gender fluid/queer but I am biologically female and love being in a woman's body.

Just a side note, I am a bigger girl. Please do not get it in your head that I am not. If you don't like bigger girls there is no need to write to me. I'm not interested in disappointing or decieving anyone. There are too many flakes and fakes in the world of internet. I am a thicker girl and that IS what I am, so no sense in bullshitting about it.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm focusing on this school thing mostly.... :) I'm completely nervous to make a commitment to becoming something more than I am. But I am completely excited as well.

I am working on my self. I'm working on being the best mom I can be, and trying to be good to myself. I'd really like an excuse to make art or music with someone or someones.

I am in general on a constant mission for self improvement and becoming a good human. Not necessarily good as determined by the normative standard, but good as in being a solid, respectful, open person. Having the ability to live without fear and having a sense of fulfillment and completeness. I am learning to be vulnerable and accept that I am an emotional being. The biggest thing I am learning is to accept that I am falible and my mistakes are beautiful and may truly be the gems I didn't realize I was actually looking for.

School is for my brain and my social standing in terms of career growth and expansion of opportunities.

Health is to further maintain my quality of life :) I really love learning..... really anything. Especially if it makes me a better, more tolererent, and understanding human being.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing....singing....being mom...thinking....analyzing.... i'm a good friend..... a loyal lover (if you earn it).... being honest...
The first things people usually notice about me
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my tattoos, or my eyes....people say my eyes are amazing
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love history and historical fiction, as a general rule. Neil Giemen is my favorite author, even though he doesn't write either history, or historical fiction.

I love Thai, Japanese, and Mexican food. Actually, I just like food, but those are the favs. Unfortunately I have been told that I have to cut meat and dairy out of my life so my food options have been significantly altered.This is one of the lamest things ever. I promise.... because it is so lame I decided the doctor was wrong and not eating meat made me feel pretty yucky anyway.

I'm not really finicky about movies. I like watching them. :) American History X, Bedtime story, Princess Bride, Corpse Bride, Stardust, Public Enemy, American Gangsters, A Beautiful Mind, Golden Compass, The smurfs was pretty funny. Pretty much any comedy are some of my favorite movies.

As far as music is concerned, put it on and I will probably know, or recognize something from what you put on. I love music. ALL kinds. They all serve a purpose and suite me just fine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Damian
Elijah
friends
photos
thought
life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My kids. I know this probably seems really mundane, but it's totally necissary. Kids take a lot of extra thought normally, but mine take slightly more than that. My genetic make up made them smart, and consequently made them challenging. Damn.

I think about my goals, what I want to accomplish, the fact that I'm still young enough to dream of doing ANYTHING, and what to make for dinner.

I think about work, buying a truck, learning to ride a motorcycle, skating, and trying to make things. Becoming who I want to be both physically and mentaly
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home. I can be found hanging with the boys, or friends. I like to kinda just chill on Fridays. Saturdays are when I get to feeling randy and want to just DO things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book....ask away. But, for the sake of the question, I'm really a hopeless romantic even though I play that I'm not in real life. Oh! And that I actually like cuddling..... and kissing means more to me than most anything.
You should message me if
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You want to meet up for coffee,show me cool places to walk/hike, go to the beach.If you want to lay in the sun, or go wine tasting. You should message me if you know how to talk and hold an awesome conversation. If you like spunky, quirky girls...