Now onto the actual profile information:
I moved to WA in 2008 and left King county 6 months into my move here because I thought that people north of tacoma were far too pretentious for me. I'm a bit of a snob sometimes, but my god people!!! It's as if being politically correct and acting like your shit doesn't stink is is a religeon up there.....personally that's a bit too faithless and self involved for me. I tend to be traditional, and not, all at the same time. I am a walking oxymoron..... just like my screen name says. I am femminine, but not girly. I believe in respect. I think that people deserve common decency and earn the form of respect that they present themselves worthy of. Until someone gives me reason to believe they deserve less or more I treat everyone the exact same way.
I have 3 children....boys....they are amazing. I have a husband. He knows I'm poly.
I love to dance in the rain, well dance in the first place. I love to sing loudly in my car by myself. I have become less negative over the past few years or so, and try to surround myself with the healthier things in life. This is still a work in progress, as are many self enhancing and life enhancing traits I wish to acquire. I am always growing and learning. This is a core element to who I am fundamentally and I believe life is an adventure that is meant to be experienced in as many ways as possible. I used to skate but due to a series of unfortunate events it is in my best interest that don't. Anything else please ask more. I am as honest as they come.
I just finished my BA at UWT recently. Not sure what I want to do now. I know grad school is in my future but when is up for debate. My youngest child is a year old so being mom is cool for now. Although, a paycheck would be nice too.
I am vivacious, thoughtful, and intelligent.
I identify as gender fluid/queer but I am biologically female and love being in a woman's body.
Just a side note, I am a bigger girl. Please do not get it in your head that I am not. If you don't like bigger girls there is no need to write to me. I'm not interested in disappointing or decieving anyone. There are too many flakes and fakes in the world of internet. I am a heavier girl and that IS what I am, so no sense in bullshitting about it.
I am in general on a constant mission for self improvement and becoming a good human. Not necessarily good as determined by the normative standard, but good as in being a solid, respectful, open person. Having the ability to live without fear and having a sense of fulfillment and completeness. I am learning to be vulnerable and accept that I am an emotional being. The biggest thing I am learning is to accept that I am falible and my mistakes are beautiful and may truly be the gems I didn't realize I was actually looking for.
Health is to further maintain my quality of life :) I really love learning..... really anything. Especially if it makes me a better, more tolererent, and understanding human being.
I love Thai, Japanese, and Mexican food. Actually, I just like food, but those are the favs.
I'm not really finicky about movies. I like watching them. :) American History X, Bedtime story, Princess Bride, Corpse Bride, Stardust, Public Enemy, American Gangsters, A Beautiful Mind, Golden Compass, The smurfs was pretty funny. Pretty much any comedy are some of my favorite movies.
As far as music is concerned, put it on and I will probably know, or recognize something from what you put on. I love music. ALL kinds. They all serve a purpose and suite me just fine.
I think about my goals, what I want to accomplish, the fact that I'm still young enough to dream of doing ANYTHING, and what to make for dinner.
I think about work, buying a truck, learning to ride a motorcycle, and trying to make things. Becoming who I want to be both physically and mentaly